If you're not okay with it you have some insecurities in the relationship, it was just a comment that he made, I'm sure you see a lot of handsome guys all the time , and you think that because he said he saw a beautiful woman that that was inappropriate, it was not appropriate at all, if he acts on his actions then he has crossed the line, but until then you have nothing to be concerned about and you really shouldn't feel that way, examine your feelings and think about that before you go off on him...
This is going to sound mean, but get over yourself. I am sure there are better looking women than you in the world. So freaking what? He is marrying you because he likes the person inside. (Though if this is the way you normally act I wouldn't know why.) Everyone's looks fade, so don't put too much importance on it.
He has eyes, of course he's going to look. You have to trust him. Nothing wrong with looking as long as he doesn't touch. Please don't tell me, if you see a gorgeous guy, you're not going to give him a second look. You really need to have more faith in your guy or your jealousy is going to cause you to loose him.
Wow jealous much? If you were secure in your relationship this wouldn't be a problem. My wife and I point out people to each other that we think the other will find attractive. You need to grow up if you plan on "leaving the minors and going pro" ... AKA getting married.
Your boyfriend's comment was indiscreet and i don't blame you becoming upset. if everything else in the relationship is OK, it might be best to do nothing now but if he repeats something like this in the future, you might give him a taste of his own medicine and comment admiringly about the next good looking fellow that you see.
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He 'saw' a woman? As in .. he noticed a beautiful woman .. and was honest about it, and trusting enough to share that with you.
I see nothing wrong with that. In fact .. I find it honourable that he would tell you about it. THAT in itself speak a lot about how much he trusts you, and his efforts to be honest with you.
He did nothing but notice beauty .. much the same as noticing a beautiful sunset, or waterfall. It's not a sexual deviant indulgence.. it's just being human.
Be thankful you have someone who wants to share his likes and dislikes .. and respects you enough to look and not touch.
If you are jealous and THAT controlling about his eyes wandering and ultimately telling you about it .. rest assured .. the only thing to change will be .. that he won't share it with you. Your relationship will be short lived, miserable .. or both. Your choice.
if you guys are engaged,then you wouldnt call him your boyfriend and he wouldnt call you his girlfriend unless you're not engaged and your just bf/gf. if your engaged,you should call him your fiance and he should call you his fiancee. thats proper
I looked at the answers and I'm surprised at what I'm seeing. you are secure but your boyfriend shouldn't have said that he saw a beautiful model I mean that's horrible. tell him that if he wants to discuss it with another person do right ahead but I'm not ok with it. he will probably get the message that you are mad
If you are jealous that he saw a girl and said she was beautiful, then I can tell you, you are in for a hell of a rocky marriage. If there is no trust in your relationship, or in your head, this marriage is doomed.
Be confident and secure in yourself. Don't worry about it. Ask him what she looked it and agree with him that she does sound beautiful. Let him know you're ok with looking and that you look too. Remember...you can look but not touch! He's a good boy by telling you about it. Besides, he came home to you which means its you that he wants to be with.
Ha! Oh my god... If he is marrying you because your "pretty" your marriage is not going to last long... And you should not have to try to be "beautiful" because he should love you for you, not some god aweful looks and attitude, and definitely not for someone who is as self centered as YOU!
Maybe he wanted you to get jealous? Maybe he felt that you have become cocky or self centered about your own looks so he he had to bring it down a bit. Or maybe he didn't think any of that....and just told you cuz it's not every day you see a girl that looks like a model so it was simply innocent. Point is, I know it's annoying but don't get TOO upset over it. If I thought a guy looked hot and like a model I wouldn't tell my hubby cuz I know he gets jealous. But I have done it..and now I've learned a bit more about him. And I can truly say I did it cuz it's rare to see really beautiful people on the streets, so it is innocent. I'm married two years and I had Major issues w/ my bf/fiance at the time making comments that made me upset. Now he's learned alot more about me, my insecurities, and the fact I'm sensitive. It took some time though... If all else is ok with him, it'll blow over.
Usually men make those comments because they are looking for your attention. I would explain to him that it hurts when he says things like that. Also, ask him if he feels like he is getting enough attention from you. If you don't feel comfortable asking that question, tell him how attracted you are to him, rub his tummy and get him something to eat.
Tell him how you feel. Don't keep it bottled up, but do not freak out on him either. Tell him that you are pissed and you shouldn't be calling other girls beautiful. How would he feel if you called another guy sexy?
Yo, are you foreal? seriously if you are engaged to this guy then you should trust him! if my girlfriend says she thinks a guy is fit i dont care at all because i know that she loves me more than than any skin deep attraction. .she is not going to act on it...... i trust her 100% until the day she gives me a reason not tr trust her....then it would be over
tell him how you feel, he may not like it but at least he'll know not to tell you things like that, a man is endowed to what he thinks but dont get super ticked at him, you have him and the other chick doesnt.. be happy(: