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How do you clam down someone with anger issues?

My brother has a problem that he always needs to be rift and if he isn't then he gets upset and normally someone gets hurt. My family and I don't know what to do for him.

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I think a lot depends on (1) how old he is and (2) what he's getting angry about. If he's old enough to be able to control his temper, then maybe he needs some professional counseling help to develop some anger control techniques. If he's getting angry about stupid stuff, then who cares who's right and just let it go.
My sister doesn't have anger control issues, at least not with me, but she does have a strong need to be right all the time. I've learned to not really care about pretty much all of her opinions so now we get along great as long as I remember to not disagree with her most of the time. Because I've learned to carefully choose my battles with her, she's more likely to listen to me when I do disagree.

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Very good!
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With Butter and Lemon Pepper ?

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How old is he? Sounds like he needs counseling or anger management classes.The longer you wait, the harder to control..

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Counselor

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Hugs!

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No one should ever get hurt when he's angry. Do you mean physically? That is wrong!! He could get in deep trouble and go to jail. I started teaching children this who come to my house and fight and hit one another. It's not tolerated at all and it calls for jail time. He's got to gain self control or go get professional help.

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Maybe get him a counselor. Another thing that might work is if he has an ability to listen to music he likes it might calm him down. I know someone with anger issues and if you put headphones in there ears with a song they like they'll be fine.

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If he's violent but small enough that 2 people can control him, put him in a very cold shower! Clothes and all! Usually stops them really quickly. If he's older, I don't know. Try a pistol grip squirt bottle and run like he!! Give him one too! Get his aggression out in a fun way. See a counselor!

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I'm the only one that can calm my boyfriend down when he is angry , you need to find that one person that can do that bc that's the only person they will listen too when they are angry

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I'm the person that can get him to call down but I'm not around all the time
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I ALWAYS tell him I'm proud of him for not blowing up and punching someone or something. I will call him an tell him i love you and I promise every things gonna be ok. He will usually call or txt me then I will call him he will tell me what's wrong and I tell him think of us and our future to get him to calm down and he takes it from there
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If I were you I would tell him to call it txt you if your not around
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Pray for him. God will help if you call upon His Name. It worked for me in a similar case.
God Bless you

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