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my friend is cutting herself because she's having problems at home. she started doing it last week, and I want her to stop. should I tell someone?

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I would tell her parents or a confidential help center. Just be prepared it may alter, if not eliminate your friendship. But in the end that's what a friendship should be, watching out for one another. Even when the ending may not be the best for yourself. She needs help!

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Yes tell her parents they can get her the proper help she needs.

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Yes. Tell her parents or a school counselor.

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Suzie17

Please tell a guidance counselor. That's being a great friend! Do not tell her parents if she is being abused by them.

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anstazia1

tell someone anyone but her parents

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Perhaps before you tackle your friend on the subject, or tell her parents or teacher, you should try to understand why people do it. And unfortunately, there are as many reasons as people. However, one thing they all seem to have in common is that once they start, they find the habit very difficult to stop, which suggests an addiction to the physical pain/emotional pain transference. Pain releases endorphin's in the brain which cause a rush or a high. Some get addicted to tattoos or piercings, which most people find acceptable. However, cutting is a form of self mutilation that is considered socially unacceptable and is very misunderstood. I suggest if you want to approach your friend sensitively about the subject, you need to have a good look at all the cutter help sites and blogs (and there are loads) out there.

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jaralex

Tell your parents give her a artical about what can happen to you

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Tell her parents after talking to her if she doesn't listen... Help her as best you can and in any way possible. It helps to know you have a true friend.

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Hell Yea dont wait

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YES.you should definately tell someone of authority so she can get help.your genuine concern is admirable. your schools guidance counselor would be a good place.they know whats good to do and it would also may help you to be supportive to her.Everyone should have such a friend as you

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