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Is it wrong to do it before your married

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With respect to the religious opinion, yes it is wrong
And with respect to different cultures opinions, yes it is wrong.

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many people do! but technically it is...

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No, if you guys love each other already, it should be fine. Nothing wrong with it, it's certainly not bad either.

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If your referring to s*x then no.

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do it unprotected get an std

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well .. if you are a reasonable person you ll find that the answer is yes.
because no one knows what happens if you get pregnant..
he may leave you so you get stuck with the baby.
you will ruin your youth
plus you will feel guilty in front of your parents

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It's fine sweetie, people "do it" way before they get married.

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I don't think so I think I might be pregnant and my boyfriend engaged a couple monts ago and were getting married next year

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Get a Urethral Swab next time you get checked out then say that.

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As long as both (or all) partners are aware of the risks and willing (and able) to take the responsibility for their actions ... it's okay.

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Would you buy a pair of shoes without trying them on first?

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No... A wedding means nothing but having to sit through a long boring service.... As long as you both know what your doing and what consequences can come (stds, pregnancy, yadda yadda) just do it...

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In today's society, things are different than before, so I think it's ok.
However I don't believe in being with a different man or woman every night. If you're going to "do it" before marriage, you should be very committed to them and because you love each other deeply. Doing it a couple months after starting a relationship, no that is not okay.

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Just know what the end product of "it" is....and ask if you are ready for one or two? The only 100% protection is to not do "it". One of my wifes bff's got stuck with twins...because her bf bailed when he found out she was pregnant.

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do what?;)

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God wants us to be married to who were having sex with before doing it. God has great advise. He is pretty wise.

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No it's awesome....I'd imagine it gets boring when you're married!

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