10 months ago
Last edited at 1:51PM on 2/7/2013
With respect to the religious opinion, yes it is wrong With respect to different cultures opinions, yes it is wrong. And if you are still teen, then I think that it is too wrong to have a baby at such age. How can you be responsible/take care and have money for a baby at that age !?
In the old days it was frowned upon. Some even disowned by their families. A lot of religions dont agree with it either. I was taught to marry first then have sex. Now days its normal to see women have children and not married. Keep your head up. You will make it.
Well I think that the best choice is to wait but if u already had sex and think you have a baby then now the best decision to make is not to abort it instead have it and if u are to young or dont want it for whatever reason then give it to adoption and next time think of all this! good luck
I only think it's wrong if it's someone who is under the age of 18 that becomes pregnant. I don't believe that because you become pregnant before marriage you're going to Hell. Congratulations on the baby :) (If you are actually pregnant.)
It is only wrong if you are not prepared to take care of the child. The child needs LOTS from you and will continue to need from you. Are you prepared for all that? It is a lot of work and it helps if both parents are around.
No it's not. In fact, the vast majority of people have sex before getting married, although some seem reluctant to admit it. However, if you do, only do so when you are ready and use protection. I suggest waiting until you can take care of yourself. This helps when you have to take care of a baby.
10 months ago
Last edited at 1:54PM on 2/7/2013
Its wrong on many levels if you can not financially, emotionally and morally care for this child and each other for the rest of your lives. Having sex requires no commitment ... But having a child ... Is an eternity of commitment.
When you have sex you are basically getting married to that person.. When you have sex with someone you give then half of your soul. That's why people who have sex all the time with different people every time are so messed up there soul keeps getting divided..
If you think that you are pregnant then please go to a clinic to make sure, but to answer your question if it is wrong then I say that truthfully, " no" all pregnancies are a gift from God or a high power that is greater than our own. It truly depends upon your age, circumstances, family and moral values. Now a days young ladies have children without a male presence in their children life and they don't necessarily have to depend upon the government for assistance. Taking care of a child is not easy whether you are with someone or not but it can be done. In the end, your opinion is the only opinion that matters. If you are a teen please get help from your parents, even though they may get upset but your health comes first.
Pregnancy is one of the top concerns when it comes to dating without the view of getting married. Sexually permissive people are unlikely to change their habits just because they get married. In contrast, those who are loyal to God’s moral standards before marriage are more likely to be loyal to their mate afterward. The Bible shows that you do well to wait until you are past that time in life when sexual feelings are very strong. (1 Cor. 7:36) Because strong sexual impulses can distort good judgment and cause you to make unwise decisions that may result in heartache later. Raising a child involves years of self-sacrifice. It is a big investment in time and energy, which most young single people don't have experience in.