Submit a question to our community and get an answer from real people.
Submit

How long should I wait before asking a girl out again if she says that she isn't ready?

I asked this girl out recently and she said yes, too what she though was just "hanging out as friends" but I asked her yesterday if she was free this weekend and she said "When you asked me out, did you mean like a date?" and I said yes, and then she said "I don't really feel ready for a date" or something like that. So how long should I wait before asking her out again? I don't want her to feel bad again, and we still haven't talked for a while, but how do I know if she's ready or not for a relationship? She's the most amazing girl and I know that I want to be with her so I'll wait but not longer than this summer. By the way we are 13.

Report as

Don't ask her out just give her some space and become friends when she's ready she will start giving you hint and/or act differently then and only then should you ask her out, hope I have helped!

Helpful (1) Fun Thanks for voting Comments (0)
Report as
Add a comment...

You can't really know whether or not she is ready for a relationship unless you ask her. Call her and ask her if she would be willing to go on a date with you and if she is still not ready, ask her if she knows when she will be ready. If you get an inconclusive answer then you should just move on.

Helpful Fun Thanks for voting Comments (0)
Report as
Add a comment...

Ask her

Helpful Fun (1) Thanks for voting Comments (0)
Report as
Add a comment...

I agree with marthseem but worst case scenario she might've used that as an excuse so that she doesn't have to go on a date with you...:(

Helpful Fun Thanks for voting Comments (0)
Report as
Add a comment...

Give her a month or two.

Helpful (1) Fun Thanks for voting Comments (0)
Report as
Add a comment...
Do you have an answer?
Answer this question...
Did you mean?
Login or Join the Community to answer
Popular Searches