What do I do?
I live with my gf . She is gorgeous and we get along so well we have been together for a year. She is in her last semester In college. She is a shot girl at a bar every night she goes to work (she will be done working there at the end of the semester). She wears a skirt and a shirt that shows a lot of cleavage. It bothers me to no end. I hate it and its a turn off to me when she dresses like that. (Being a guy i know all the dudes are gonna be checkin her our trying to hit on her etc.) We have talked about it and she said she understands. But she still has to do it. Now I can't help it bothers me and I feel absolutely ridiculous trying to tell my gf what to wear. So I hold that shit in. But it puts me in a bad mood and gets me thinkin all crazy. And she can tell something is up. I don't know what to do. I wish she can dress more respectful but I think it's crazy to try to tell her about it all the time. It comes to the point wear its winter and she's always wearing tight skirts when all the other girls have jeans on. I just don't get it. And idk it bothers me so much. What can I do about it? It's really one of the only things that bothers me about her.