i think we should judge something instead of people. when someone judge others, they refuse to talk anymore, and directly tell that he/she is right, and others are not right.
when a kid was judged stupid, the person wanted this kid to obey because he/she was so right and he/she wanted the kid to obey directly. what the kid was doing was not something to be judged seriously.
People judge others to make themselves feel better in comparison with the person they are judging. It is appropriate to recognize sin, but be humble and understand that we are all equal in God's eyes. According to the Bible, we have all sinned and fallen short of the glory of God. The Bible says, "Judge not, lest you be judged", and [paraphrased] "Just as you measure out for others, so will it be measured for you."
I get judged a lot but my dad told me that they're trying to be cool so if u see someone nice to everybody that's what can get you popular and then you can tease them after they tease you. And if they repeat to do that that means they're BULLYING u so STOP the bullies and stand up and tell someone!
They weigh what they see/hear against how they see/hear and decide if this is up to the standards they have set in their own mind. They do not consider the idea that their own mind may be off center or incorrect