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How do i get my boyfriends dad to like me?

Hey everyone. Im a girl. Me and my boyfriend have been together for a month and I've been over to his house quite a few times. I am super nice! Especially to my boyfriends dad and family. My boyfriend just told me the other day that his dad doesn't like me. He didn't say why he doesn't like me though. Now, I don't want to go over to his house. I'm scared and I dont know what to do! Can anybody relate to this situation and try to help me out? Please and thanks! :)

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Hardest thing in the world is to get someone who doesn't like you to like you. It means a lot of concessions and compromises on your part. Just don't worry about it. That's his problem, we are not put here to be liked by everybody.

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your bf should have never told you that. it don't mater anyway! I wouldn't let him stop u from visiting

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Well, it's really up to your boyfriend to talk to your dad about this. I don't think his dad thought he would tell you he said that. I don't think you should go to his house if you don't feel welcome there, for whatever reason.

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Maybe you could get an IUD.
Daddy's probably worried his son will knock you up.

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don't overextend your kindness just be yourself it took 2 years for my girlfriend's mother to start liking me but I hit it off at the rest of the family just right off the bat just remember just be yourself

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Tell your boyfriend that you don't feel comfortable going to his house as his dad makes you feel uncomfortable. You can't make him like you though.

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You cant so dont try to. The best you can hope for is that you and his father are adult enough not to cause tension for your boyfriend. He may come to like you in time, but you cant do anything currently that will change his opinion of you. And I say that as a father of 4 girls and 1 boy. If a parent feels you are a waste of their child's time, only time will change it. As it did for my 2 son in laws. I thought they were dead beats at first. The older one ended up with his own contracting business and the other started a business with his father after getting out of the military. While having their own business was nice, the happiness of my kids were what made me change my mind. Live like his opinion doesn't matter without being disrespectful and you will be fine whether he changes his opinion or not.

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