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I am 15 years old i have a baby and i want to get marry with a 25 year old male . can i get marry?

in Johnson city

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WTF is wrong with you your 15 worry about partying playing video games or something did your parents not teach you to at least use protection and a 25 year old wtf does he want to go to jail

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You can get married, but with your parents consent. The legal age of getting married without parental consent is 18 years old. You should contact an attorney who will see you through the process. Go to http://statelaws.findlaw.com/tennessee-law/tennessee-marriage-age-requirements-laws.html for details.

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my parant agree.
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dont encourage it!
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thatoneguy97

No. It's illegal. It was illegal for you to even have the baby.

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i know that .
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CaptainLokiThor
So why do you want it?
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How is this helpful when the baby is already born and they want to know if they can get married?
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wow....just wow.... What is wrong with teenagers.

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CaptainLokiThor
Ikr. I ran out of comments on thatoneguy again
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I think you have to space out the comments.
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CaptainLokiThor
What do you mean?
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Like, only comment every 5 minutes or so, and not all on the same answer.
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CaptainLokiThor
I might as well just go do my school. I've been pretending to sleep.
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you will have 3 kids and be alone when you are 25

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yes my parents teach me. but i didnt care . and yes i do want to have more kids .
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you need to be a child first
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guys that are commenting realise it's not your life sometimes you just have to realise that you gotta let people live their lives and learn from their mistakes

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she wants to get married....she already had a baby... Im pretty sure my betta fish has more IQ then her.
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CaptainLokiThor
So do mine!
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thanks
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CaptainLokiThor
Wow. Why do people encourage breaking the law?
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although bree you too must learn that stuff like this is illegal and if you really love the guy wait until your 18 that way there aren't any legal issues going on and btw people she never said that it was the 25 year old males child although she's young sometimes you can't judge for all you know she could have been raped but soon after fell in love with a 25 year old .....do i think it's healthy,no but i beleive in letting people choose to live how they want then learn from the consequences of their mistakes you have to look at more than angle of the story not just what is going on in front of you.......things arent always how they seem
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Funny, if this was the wild west it would have been closer to normal. Anyway, the only thing to do now is make the best of a not so good situation.
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CaptainLokiThor

It's illegal. You can't. Period.

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FunnyLittleFrog

You really need to stay in school. You can't work productively with that grammar. If your parents and this grown man care about you, they would want that for you. Also, you have to be a teacher for your child, remember, so please work on that. It's important.

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i know that
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CaptainLokiThor
So don't try to get married!
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thanks but i really like him ..
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CaptainLokiThor
One. It's illegal. Two. It's stupid. Three. You're a minor and he's 25. Four. You have to be 18 to legally get married.
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You are only 15. You need to wait to see if you really do love him. At least try to finish high school before marriage. It sthe best thing to do. I wish you luck Bree.
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he is a pedophile
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most likely he is... BUt this kid is not changing her mind. which is just sad.
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her parents should castrate him and knock some sense into her
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Its the parents fault for not teaching her about this stuff.
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AquaLuna
Actually, he's an ephebophile. Which most men are. Pedophiles are attracted to prepubescent children, not teenagers.
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candybar

....sigh.....

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I know. Im 15 and ive never even held someones hand. lol
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candybar
Because you're smart, and very wise.
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Lol Thank you.
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It's so wonderful that all of the people here that are clueless responded. Thank you for your misinformation. You are under the age of consent for marriage and therefore have to have your parents sign permission for you to marry.

That being said, I would be wary of marrying anyone that would have sex with a 14 year old. Once you reach a certain age, he may no longer be interested in you and move on to the next 14 year old.

I realize you think you are in love but understand that this person could be a child sexual predator. I say could be because I dont know what you look like. I have seen several 14 year olds that look and act older... but not many. Wait and see. If he dumps you for a *younger model*, call the police.

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AquaLuna

I don't know if you can. But man, that's just wrong.

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I believe Johnson City really tells it all

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No.

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Be very careful with this. Even if you are both committed to this relationship, in some states your boyfriend could get jailed for statutory rape.

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In ALL states. He's 10 years older.
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We both made the assumption that the 25 year old is the father. If he is not he has done nothing wrong - yet. You know the rape laws of all states? Seems you are incorrect per MarSch.
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Breelara - I was in love with someone at 15, and got pregnant. Parents took me out of state to get married. By the age of 19, I was divorced and with two kids. "Love" (for either of you), is different at 15 than it is at 20 and different again at 25. Not only that, your guy is way too old for you. At 15 the age difference is tremendous. At 35 it doesn't make as much difference, and at 55, make little difference at all. But at 15, it's still tremendous. You still have some maturing to do (although with having a baby, it usually is faster), and when you do, will he still love you when you're a grown woman, with your own opinions and able to make up your own mind about things? Or will he want a partially grown lady who does everything he wants, because she's afraid to stand on her own, that he won't like her anymore. The fact that he broke the law to begin with is something to worry about.... Please think twice about this. Your baby needs a strong, mature, able woman to be her mother. And also needs a RESPONSIBLE, stable, reliable man to be her father. Forever. Not for 1 year or 2, but forever.

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thatoneguy97
Wow. That's like the greatest answer here.
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Thanks - God is good...
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Did he know he was breaking the law? Actually I've been wondering if ths is a real post or a prankster.
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The first and only consideration should be that of the welfare of the child. You need to educate yourself on the alternatives to you, prior to marriage. See a social worker in a welfare office, about everything. You should be making ZERO life decisions without proper guidance. Good luck.

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