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What should I do if my friend is building a relationship with a guy I like?

Should I tell her that I like the guy or just stop being her friend.

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Neither one. It's not her fault you like the guy, nor is it her fault that he likes her more. If you tell her you like him, as if she should back off, you will only seem spiteful not only to her but to him. He certainly won't like you for that, so what good would it do.
If you're going to drop your friend because she has the guy you wanted, through no fault of hers, then you're not much of a friend. Get over it if you can, and if you can't, well, walk away with some style, not as a spiteful person.

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she doesn't know u like him so it's not her fault. Tell her u like him and maybe she'll back off. Or u can let her have him and u can find a different guy. Or u can stay single and enjoy being a kid while u can XD

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talk to her and tell her that you like the guy, however, if you have liked the guy forever and you haven't made a move, then move on and let her have him.

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Yeah you should just tell her. But you can't just tell her and be all shy with him. You have to give him some hint that you like him. Cause if you don't it would be wrong to your friend.

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oooooooorrrrrrrrr................................
Move on to some other guy. I bean it's not like he's your bf.

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Well if she didn't know you liked him you can't be mad at her so tell her but obviously she likes him too and it's not fair to her to make her choose between the two of you. She got there before you did......

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