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How to get her trust back n get things back to normal?

Ive known this girl for 4 yrs but been getting to know her thru txt n fb for 8 months. She went to my hs n shes shown signs of interest. Shes a rly rly shy muslim girl n im muslim too. Shes religious n conservative but doesnt wear hijab . Everything was going gd. My friends n I visited her university(1.5hrs drive) cuz its one of our choices for when we transfer from community college n me n her hungout. Her sis came along since she lives w/ her sis. She even asked me whens the next time ima come n see her. L8er that day I txtd her sayin she looked nice n her clothed were pretty. I know she knew that i liked her even b4 the hangout tho. Things changed. She started taking long to reply sayin shes busy with school. I think I came on 2 strong. B4 it was all gd, we werent dating but we were more than friends. We’d txt n msg n flirt. Last month I askd if I could hangout n she said she cnt cuz she is interested in school more. I admit I was kinda clingy but I relazied my mistake now How can I get her 2 trust me again, n show tht I dnt want a full relationship cuz I dnt. Just want things 2 be the way they wer b4

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Just build up the relationship again through text, and don't go too heavy again. It might also help if you apologise, whether or not you feel you were in the wrong. While you are building up your relationship again, I seriously suggest you invest in some English typing lessons, as you ill seriously not be able to get a job if you use text language outside of texting.

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Lol I can type just fine, it's just that I thought that there was a limit to how many words/letters one can write in their response. I guess that rule no longer is there lol
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Not in a question, at least definitely not in the extra information. There is a character limit in the answer though, but not in the question. You just joined this month, and this is your first question. Why do you talk as if you have belonged to this website for ages?
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I had an account last week but deleted it lol. This is my new one.
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Right, sorry I was just curious but that makes sense now. Hey, that gives me an idea for an answer to a previuos question...thank you!
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Its alright and np!
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Btw about your answer. Did you mean apologize for the compliment that I gave her after we hung out?
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Problem with Muslim girls (well most) is that they can't really be in relationships. It's really hard. But idk I guess just try talking to her again and wait to see wat happens

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don't bug her, let her get in touch with you. if she does she does, if she don't, you have been officially kicked to the curb.

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i think just a talk with her will show her and if she rejects you then keep constantly asking her or tell her its super important.
but be sure not to ask her to much or she will think your a creep.
the last thing you wanna do is give her message through your actions that could mean something different to her.
i hope everything goes good and fight on! :3

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I'll let you in on something,once you lose trust in someone,you NEVER fully get it back

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Yea true but its not like a committed infidelity or somethin :P
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I think her sis might had something to do with this just leave it go

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Maybe if you say something like "I'll be here if you ever want to talk, but I won't pressure you at all." And then don't talk to her. It's kind of weird, but if you don't talk to her, that will show you are serious. And you can get in contact about a month or so later.

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This is a good answer! If he does this, he is honoring her and she will maybe think twice later on with time.
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I actually did that, told her that if she needs to talk she can msg me. didnt message her for a month. I messaged her a short message last week and she replied back with a short msg as well after several days. I need to just keep things on the low and show her my intentions and hopefully itll be aite ;D
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