Pity and shame make you feel better at her expense. Alone and pregnant has more potential growth and love than being with someone who given the opportunity to feel pity or shame takes it. Maybe you should stay far away from her, what do you say you give the woman a break.
Why can't you see a strong young woman who is about to embark on the greatest job role of her life. why don't you see a woman who neither wants or needs your pity. Is your life so great & your so perfect that you can put an x love down instead of admiring her for going ahead alone rather than having an abortion & taking the easy way out.