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How to tell a girl that i really don't like her?

so I have ran in to a serious trouble I'm 20 years old guy ,( I would not say that I'm attractive on my self) and today one girl which is about 16-17 years old or less texted me that she really likes me, (from what I understand she means my appearance because I have never even talked to her) but I really don't like her,her personality or appearance,plus she's too young for me, how to tell her to bug off without hurting her feelings?
as well that girl is daughter of my fathers wife(not my fathers daughter) (we live separately) I feel so awkward about that especially that I'm going to meet her at my fathers home eventually.
(hell, why weired stuff happens to me)
I'm totally raw at relationships

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Tell her that she is too young for you. Also tell her that it makes you feel awkward because your parents are married to each other.

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best answer do this.
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thanks people
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just tell her you dont like her. dont worry about hurting her feelings. she needs to know the truth.

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I will but I want to do that in different way, not like just : I don't like you.
If it were random girl from a street, that I don't know, I would probably tell her straight but she lives at my fathers home D:
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The truth can be given in a pleasant manner.
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thanks , ill put your advice to use
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Cool, but my comment was to Tas, because his advice was a little harsh
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ok tell me how would you do it?
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He should explain to her that she is attractive and will have no problem finding someone her own age., and though not blood related it is an awkward setting for a relationship.
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TAS IS A GIRL EVERYONE. thank you.
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Just say nicely that you're not into her. Be honest or it'll probably be harder on you

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Be honest. Tell her its weird that she likes you and that you dont see her that way.

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I dunno, I think he should hid under a table
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Sometimes, you just got to say the plain truth. It's better to tell her you don't like her to her face. Another thing is to make her not like you (It is sometimes shown on T.V shows), if you act weird, and do everything she doesn't like, it will defiantly get her off your back.

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well I'm bad actor, also I wouldn't go that far to humiliate my self let's stay at your previous advice
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Say, "look, i am 20 and this wont work out between us. We should just be friends." Or something.

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Ignore her

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Tell her that she's too young for you and you don't feel comfortable about dating your STEP SISTER!

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Tell her it's awkward because y'all are step siblings.

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Oops...I meant to put ;)
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say something like were both young and im not ready to fully commit yet, because of blah blah blah something about school may b something about you don't feel ready to have a family or say u jst finished with a nasty breakup...

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no man I want to kill any hope of getting me in her
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"Hate is a strong word, but I really really really dont like you"

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tell her nicely u would like to be a friend and only a friend i care but i dont want a girlfriend or anyone right now plus i have alot of stuff going on in my life to where i can only be a friend and nothing more but a friend

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