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Is it possible to fall in love with your best friend?

I think I'am cause we do stuff together and we just became best friends last year... and we do stuff together and we are weird when were together and when we are talking.

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Yes, very possible.

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Yup!

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YES it's very possible

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justbored

oh definatly

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Of course it's possible. It happens all the time, but some people are afraid of it happening because they're afraid it'll ruin their friendship if a relationship doesn't work out.

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Yeah... Before we were about to date but I'm just scared it might ruin our friendship
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In my opinion, if you don't date because of that, you'll be left with "What if". What ifs stink.
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But I'm not ready for the responsibilities of being in a relationship
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CGPinDisguise
Well, if you can admit that, then maybe you should wait.
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Yeah I should wait
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CGPinDisguise
It's good that you admit that though.
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Yeah I was about to date her but it came to my mind that I'm not ready
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Nicolerenee34

Yup! Happened to me:/

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Definitely, where do u think people came up with that overused cliche plot for many stories? ^-^

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Haha yeah
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LiLcuttie8

Yea it is!!!!! You should go to the next level

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I'm not sure about that
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Yeah

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DolceMonserrat7

Yes it has happened to me.

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Yes !

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Yah. It happened to me. I'm in love with my closest guy friend

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YummyKimchiPancakes

Yes, love will find you however it wants to.

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Like how?
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I just meant people find love in all sorts of weird ways...best friends, at the grocery store, online, at school, etc. (That's all I meant.) If it's meant to be...it will be.
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Well I almost dated her but I'm scared that it might ruin our friendship... But those feelings came back again
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YummyKimchiPancakes
Well, if you both feel that way...then you might as well go for it. You could keep going on and off with your feelings...which would probably get annoying to both of you, be in a relationship and be happy for a long time (or even forever), or try it and it not work out. Any way you try, there will be something in the back of your mind no matter what. Whatever is meant to be will be and you should just go with your gut. It's better to know than always wonder what if and have regrets. Of course, I would never want to ruin a great friendship...but sometimes you just can't help how you feel. Whatever you decide...I hope it works out for you. :)
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Thanks! ill think about it. :)
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Welcome :)
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1467803

yes.....but be careful not to mess up a good friendship if things dont work out.

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Yeah that's what I'm scared of
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i have been there. its awful.
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Yeah,.. I've seen best friends became strangers to each other
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its happening to me!

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Awww I bet it sucks being in this situation?
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yup!
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yes it happened to me

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Did you lose your best friend?
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Yes!!! Most defiantly! There are many reasons why it's possible! One is that they are your best friend for a reason! They are always there for you, nice, understand you, you have a lot in common, they know all the embarrassing things about you and they've stuck with you through thick and thin. Those are all great traits of somebody you should like!!! Trust me, I'm dating my best friend!:)

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Cool so your bf is your bf too... What I meant by bf is boyfriend or beat friend XD
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Yes! Lol. It is honestly the best relationship I've ever been in! And if it doesn't work! They'll still be your best friend, cause either way, they can't live without you! You'd always have a special place in their heart!!
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And I can honestly say I can see myself raising a family with him! Because he haven't gone a day without making me smile!:)
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That's cute but I guess I'll give it some more time cause I don't feel Like I'm ready for the responsibilities of being in a relationship
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That's always good. You always want to be 100% sure about it. It's not good to question yourself. Then again, don't live life full of regrets. Take chances:)
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Yeah. But I'm not going to take that long I'm just going to think about it before I make a move.
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Good idea!! Pros and Cons my dear friend! Lol
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Friend Zone detected .

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PrincessAngelle

Yes it is! I have fell in love with my best friend Connor. I think its the best kind of relationship because you are more comfortable with the person and you know what they like and what they don't. If i were you i would tell your best friend how you feel, maybe your friend feels the same. You will never know until you try!

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I think I'll give some more time... I feeling I'm not ready yet
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that is fine take you time
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Yessssssss and I really like it except if/when u break up it will be awkward

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Yeah, It's definitely possible espicaly when you spend a lot of time with them.

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LOVE IS BLIND darling........ <3 <3

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Yes it's really possible but depending on how long you know the person the relationship could get weird...

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yeah! it's possible, believe it or not it happened 2 me! and the good thing about it is that i like someone i've known 4 a very long time.

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yes it is very possible

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Yes! My boyfriend and I where best friends since 6th grade. Its amazing to have someone who loves you for you!

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Yep! But I'm not going to ask my best friend out... I'm not ready for one yet.
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all the time!
Make sure not to friendzone!~

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Ahhh, friend zone, I wish I wouldn't get friend zoned.- oh well thanks
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Don't worry, i'm friend zoned too, you're not alone.
Anytime!~
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