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Why don't men find me attractive?

I mean I have alot of male friends, but every guy I meet doesn't like me, want to kiss me, or even give me a chance. I obsess so much about guys, yet every rejection just depresses me more and more.

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If you worry about it in a guy's presence, you can come across as needy--makes guys run away. Be confident about who you are and what you offer the world.

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You just have to find the right guy for u

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Stop obsessing. They will come. Lol

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Minji

Someone finds you attractive. You just haven't met them yet. :)

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dont worry there is someone for everyone <3
if you dont already you could try dressing feminine and being more flirty <3

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Can you put your pic in your profile?
Than i can answer you

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Exactly!!!!
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I think that about myself everyday. But thats because we're women. We always think that we're not good enough. But trust me, we are. ^_^

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The right guy will find you perfect for just exactly who you are. So don't you worry. Just wait. Because love is patient and is oh so dearly kind.

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What men find attractive: good grooming, good manners, clean skin, height/weight proportionate, a highly symmetrical face, and a gracious manner of behavior. This includes paying attention, signaling interest (there is a list of cues here: http://www.sirc.org/publik/flirt.html )

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That's describes someone as being perfect, nobody's perfect, you stupid old man!!!!!
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It doesn't have to be all of the things. The guy is right about the things some guys can like.
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Old I am. And to teens I appear stupid, I guess. Sigh.
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The right guy will like you for who you are! Can you put a pic of yourself on your profile? I bet you are beautiful! :)

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you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince

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Loveee it lol
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lol :)
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God has someone for you, trust Him and let love surprise you :)

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Stop obsessing and worrying about guys. Focus on yourself and being who you want to be and the rest will fall into place.

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Are you weird? Just wait, a guy who loves you will come!

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fritzmerde

Ugliness is only skin deep. What people see is what you project. You've struck out before getting to the plate. You don't need to be a super model to get what you want-it helps a lot. When you're out and about, be positive, confident, and relax. There's nobody on 2 legs that is any better than you. That's the Gods honest truth, looks are great, but if you fall in like or love with looks, you ay get a few years out of it. Be happy with what & how God made you. Stop kicking yourself, there are plenty of A** ***** that will do it, for you

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the obsessing is unattractive. sounds like you're trying too hard, throwing yourself at them and pushing the issue, gender aside that's really obnoxious and explains your banishment to the friendzone.
stop trying so hard. just lay off and let them come to you

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I bet there are guys that find you attractive, just not the ones you want to find you attractive

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