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Why does it seem that moms are always angry, but the aunt, and grandmothers are more calmer than the mother? (to the children)

sometimes, grandmothers will stick up to the grandchildren?

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Do you have a clue about the weight we carry on our shoulders (very willingly) trying to raise you people right????

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Because the mothers are the main bosses and lovers

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it's because they aren't around the kids as much :)

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Mom's are constantly around their kids.....Gramma's and Aunt's get kids in small doses and then get to go home and thank God that they don't have to put up with kids....and if the kid is especially a little HeIIian then of course the Mom is gonna be snippy!!

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haha :)
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Mom's are responsible for bringing you up to be a good person and that doesn't always mean that they are "fun". I'm a mom and I have nieces and nephews. It's a lot easier for me to go easy on the nieces and nephews because it's their parents job to discipline them and not mine.

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Grandmas know the kids are leaving soon, and secretly love the fact your having kid issues. Not being mean, just truthful in my observations in my life. The young ones , not older issues, those are a drag

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Well, grandmas and aunts are not the ones who watch over you all the time and know all what you do. Also, many mothers dont know as much.

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As the "aunt" I can honestly say, it doesn't reflect on me how my nieces and nephews act. I deal with them on a daily basis but am typically more calm than their parents. Maybe it's also because the nieces and nephews (teenagers) are more apt to tell me more than they do their parents. I am very involved in their lives and I discipline them when necessary, but I don't lose it every time they do something stupid.

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Try helping your "cranky ole mom" out a little more so she doesn't have so much stress and has a little time for herself, put a thank you note on her pillow so she finds it before she goes to sleep to night. Just show her you care about her. Also it may just be "that time in her life", too.

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anger is part of love.

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