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lovemeeformee
lovemeeformee: 3 months ago via iPhone

I think my boyfriend still likes his ex. What do I do?

Everytime me & him talk he always brings up his ex. He trys to get her to admit she likes him still even when me and him are dating. What do I do?

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deathedge
deathedge: 3 months ago

Tell him that it bugs you that he does that and flat out ask him if he still has feelings for her. If he says no, but continues to bring her up, then break up with him while if he says yes, well, then still break up with him. He probably needs time to sort his feelings and what not.

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leone23
leone23: 3 months ago via iPhone

He might certainly still have feelings for her, which is no bueno; can only lead to destruction and chaos.

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Ashley908
Ashley908: 3 months ago

Talk to him about it, he's your boyfriend rite now so your in a relationship, therefore you can talk to each other about things that bug you, especially if it's in the relationship.

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BryanIvanMercedPacheco
BryanIvanMercedPacheco: 3 months ago

I think he is trying to tell you that his ex has few qualities that you dont have and you should have, or that its because of you that they broke up... Some people are like that

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eightball1067
eightball1067: 3 months ago

Sounds like he is still hung up on her. Bring up one of your exes occasionally & see what happens. Make him see the door swings both ways and maybe he will stop. Otherwise you may be looking for a new boyfriend.

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babyboomer1001
babyboomer1001: 3 months ago

If it has been less than a month or two later, tell him maybe he'd be happy going back to her because he can't seem to get her out of his mind. If it has been four to six months or more since he broke up with her, dump him. Tell him why (see the above). If he begs and only if he begs and if he promises to not bring her into your lives again, then take him back. If he fails the test even once, dump him and do it quickly. I can see a year or two down the road, even after he marries you. Two years later, divorce and he goes back to her. When a person splits up with someone and has someone new, the past relationship should be dead, gone, passe, out of his mind. He should be thinking about you, not her.

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painteris1
painteris1: 3 months ago via iPhone

Sounds like he is on a ego trip. Get rid of him

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Dtrick4
Dtrick4: 3 months ago via iPhone

Just date me... Easy answer

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