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What should i do my parents are threatening to take my college money and beat up my boyfriend if i try to move out at age 18?!?

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If they beat up your boyfriend... they could go to jail. The college money that you call yours... Did YOU put it into an account for yourself?? Your parents do not HAVE to send you to college. They can make you pay for it all yourself. Might want to tow the line if you plan on going for free.

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not move out at 18...

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I have to, all they do is fight n drink and i cant take it and i cant stand it here and they want to control me im not allowed to see my boyfriend or friends or get any piercings or tattoos and i hate life here i have to
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Violetdeath, I would like to see you answer Knuckleburg. He has asked valid questions that I need the answers to before I can address your situation.
I have one more. Do your friends like your boyfriend?
I have raised 3 children to be 3 AMAZING ADULTS. The road to their adulthood was not always easy; there were times we had to change the locks to our home to protect our belongings.
While your situation may be reversed, I think I understand your situation and would like to send a suggestion for you.
Best of luck and take care of yourself.
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Pretty sure you had to get them pretty mad for them to say that, What did you do?

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Nothing they just don't like my boyfriend and they don't want me to move out because they know he will probably be there and they hate him!
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Don't move out when your 18 then. Wait until your like 20+, he can wait if he really loves you.
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Hes everything to me n i cant stand my home life
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*stay, You don't have to stay home your whole life, Just until your mature enough to, I don't mean to offend you or anything but I really think that when your 20+ is when you should leave, once you have a job and something to fall back on, if he's your life then he can wait.
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Easy, don't move out. Problem solved.

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your 18! you dont need thier permission to move out but thier threatening you and if they say stuff like that i would report it!

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Dont move out not yet until you sure he is the one

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Beating up your boyfriend would be illegal

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They may just be bluffing. It is illegal to beat someone up for no reason. You may be a little young to move out. 24+ is the best time to move out. And that's your money so you have the right to do whatever you want with it.

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Everything in that question is illeagal? your parents are probably making a bad joke. Everyone in my family has moved out at 18 and 19. if you are going to college at those ages, make sure it is a close one;parents can be overprotective sometimes? if you are 23, that is the time that you should probably move out? your parents are probably mad at the fact that if you are under the age of 25, and you get arrested more than once, you will most likely have a bad future ahead of you? parents can be like that sometimes. So dont worry, they wont hurt you, they are trying to protect you?

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Listen to them!

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Recall the words of Yoda: "there is do & do not; there is no try."
Make a freaking choice: move out or stay home. You know the cost of each.
We cannot make that decision for you.

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Why do want to move.Live with your parents till your career is not set, unless they are your step-parents, or drug-addicted.

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