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What do I do about this guy?

This guy and I had a two week fling during the summer until he called if off and told me he didn't want a relationship. Since then we've texted, called each other, and hung out a few times. He's given me compliments, calling me beautiful, intelligent etc. and he enjoys talking to me. There is a 7 year age difference, so that might be part of the problem. The other day he told me that I'd make a guy really lucky when I meet him. I'm still interested in this guy, and I gave him the space he wanted, but just being his friend is starting to get harder and harder. What do I do?

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Choose to stop all communication with this guy and simply explain to him that you want space. You could also choose to be patient and find ways of making him get interested in you. The last choice would be to give him less attention and later give him an ultimatum.

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Move on. I'm not saying this because I don't understand. I'm saying it because I do.

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Move on and Ignore him

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A 7 year age difference?? How old are you? That could be a MAJOR factor in this whole thing.
If you can't be his friend.... then move on. He has already told you he doesnt want a relationship. What he might have meant was he didnt want a relationship with you. I dont mean to sound callous but.... Sounds like he comes around when it is convenient for him.

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#1: 7 years really
#2: walk away
#3: i don't have a 3 but i put one anyway

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You are too young for him to be serious about. He's a creep.

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I'm 17 and he's 24. Not to be high and mighty but I'm pretty level headed for a teenager. We never had sex, we basically just enjoyed each other's company and shared stories. To me, age is but a number.
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You're too young for him. Your comment that age is but a number is an immature and foolish one. When you are 24, you'll find the idea of dating a 17 year old to be absurd.
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well, seems like he ain't interested in you. time to move on to another fish.

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He's a jerk to lead you on. He just likes the attention. If he was mature, he wouldn't lead you on.

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