Uuuh. Why are you thinking about boys in middle school? Don't you have school to worry about instead? You should date someone your own age. If he doesn't like you, don't force it and ask questions like this on the internet. If it was meant to happen, let it, don't ask strangers. Opinion: You should focus on school more than boys, you'll regret it later.
Don't. You're so self conscious between the ages of 12 and 14 that going out with someone can only lead to trouble. Your self esteem probably isn't great, which means that you might find it hard to just say 'no'. Think of it like this- if you do end up dating, how long do you think it'll last? Probably a few weeks, maybe a month at best. It won't make you a better person or benefit you at all, it will only be additional stress in your life. Being an awkward middle schooler is torture enough, why throw in the pressure of a relationship into the mix? Most people during adolescence only think in 'the now' but try thinking about your future- focusing on school and participating in sports or other hobbies will be much more beneficial to you than having a quick fling with someone who probably couldn't care less about you.
for blue girl. Is it reciprocal ?Most upper HS guys that date MS girls are immature and can't find a HS girl of their own age who will go out with them, or just trying to build their own egos by giving a little girl a thrill.