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My boyfriend has lied to me 3 times, didn't get me a promise ring when I did, and hes be unfaithful..should I break up with him?

He seems like he really loves me, but actions speak louder than words...I need advice fast before I do something stupid..that I might regret. I've talked to nas many people I know but I need advice from someone I don't know.

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I don't know how old you are or how long you've been together, but I say breakup with him. It seems to me like he's the type of person that would keep having these patterns, and they might even get worse. Sometimes guys change but you don't want to be treated like that. You want a guy that's going to love you and only you, and make you feel special. Someone you can trust. And if you're older and had wanted to marry him, can you picture yourself with someone like that forever? Him coming home and you having no idea where he'd been. Asking questions and never knowing whether the things he said were lies or if he was actually telling the truth. Thinking back on this moment and wishing you would have ended it a long time ago. Picturing your life with someone different that treats you like a princess, but you'd already wasted your life with him and there was no going back. The longer you wait to e d it, the harder it will be. End it, you deserve so much better. Everyone does. Best of luck to you <3

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This is what I needed to hear. Thank you so much.(: Its going to be very hard but life still goes on.
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You're welcome(: it will be easier over time. I think you'll be happier because there's something much greater out there waiting for you.
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Yea dump him

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Talk to him about it. Maybe he doesn't realize that it's bothering you. If he has been lying to you though you should probably break up with him.

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