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there is this boy in my grade that wants to ask me out but i dont like him.. he got me a carnation and a teddy bear for valentines day and its coming so soon i just feel really bad to diss him but i just dont like him like that.

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Give him back his gifts and tell him the truth.

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Be truthful to him.

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Lol sounds exaclty like my friend ... be honest because if not you're tricking him in wanting more.

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Just tell him how u feel. But keep the gifts :)

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Than you shouldn't have accepted the gift.

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say no easy as that but break it to him easily

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Tell him in a way you'd want to hear it if you were in his shoes. IOW, be gentle, don't bruise his ego.
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Im with candy on this one, you accepted the gifts so maybe you give them back and explain yourself.

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I didn't get the gift though not until valentines day.
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what are you going to do?
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I really don't know
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Be honest with him as soon as possible , don't leave him hanging , that will hurt him more than telling him .

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just tell em straight up

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First pronounce a "nnnn" sound by pressing ur toungue to the top of ur mouth and then produce an o sound by making an "o" shape w ur mouth

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Respect his love for you. Still you can tell him the truth. You have the right to reject and select. Tell him NO in such a way that he accepts your NO and still feel your greatness in it.

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You shouldn't accept gifts from people you don't like; it leads to awkward situations like you have now. Return the gifts if you have them, and just tell him calmly that you don't like him in a way that would lead to dating. Or that you don't like him, if you want to be blunt.

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