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Serious girl drama... Help! Betrayed by a roommate... Read description!

I'm living away from my parents in New York City at NYCB. I have 3 roommates- Alexis, Emelie and Meghan. We each have a bed and a small dresser. In my dresser, I have clothes (street) and extra dance stuff. I left our dorm for a little while to talk to my mom about seeing a doctor for help with my bulimia. Meghan was alone for about 15 min. I went back in, and she didn't hear me. She'd pulled ALL MY STUFF OUT OF MY DRESSER AND THROWN IT ALL OVER. She ripped my bed apart and throwing the food I had 4... u know. She was tossing tht all over, and all my dance clothes were too, and she was trying to break my pointes. I screamed "OH MY GOD" and she turned around and shoved me and ran out of the room. I was so upset bc SHE WAS MY FRIEND!! Idk why she would go through all my stuff like that...

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Kick her out or talk to her...

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Oh, how serious. This is as bad as it gets. There are two options of this behavior: 1. She's hosting an evil spirit that causes her to behave like a feral animal 2. You offended her in some form or fashion.

Either way talking to her would be the best solution.

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i dont know how close you are friends. but if there is no privacy it is time to move out and look out for your own apartment. dont rent it. if you do a nice job and have good credit , go for lease to buy . that would be the only option

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Umm I'm 15 and living at the NYC ballet school. Closest I can come to that is switching dorms
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try for american idol or x factor or any dance performance shows, and make it big and try to put on more weight. eat more watermelon and baked beans and lot of vegetables
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So I talked to Meghan and she said that she hated me and that I was fat and ugly and that she hated Russians. She also said that this was payback... I don't know what I did wrong!!!
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Did she have a reason for all that?? Sounds as though she is not really a friend. I would ask her why she did all that.

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I really have no idea. In ballet, there are a million reasons to hate somebody. It's just that she never seemed the type to do that in a thousand years. I'm going with Em and Alexis to talk to our housemother Mrs. Coffey about it.
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Good idea. You are never suppose to hate your friends though. If she has problems or issues with you.... she needs to talk to you instead of tearing up your stuff. Good luck with the bulemia thing by the way... Please overcome that. My girlfriend was bulemic when she was a teen and in her early 20s. Has fought it every day for YEARS... and has had MAJOR problems because of it. Digestive type problems. She is in her 40s now.
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I know, you told me about her before, with the body dysmorphic disorder incident. I hope Meghan just had something going on at home- that she really doesn't hate me.
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I hope that too. I hope everything turns out ok. Make sure you are more concerned with her feelings than you are about your stuff. I would still let her know eventually though that it wasnt cool.
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I will. I feel bad for her.
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Let her know that. Good luck.
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If your friend betrayed you then she not ur friend. If your seriously mad then take it out on reality tv.

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Kick her out or try finding a law that she broke

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well you are definitly in a rough situation! im so sorry): she might be possesed by an evil spirit of some sort. when you see her again ask her why she would do that and tell her how you felt about it. Hope this helped! And also i am sorry about your condition! Pray and I hope that all will turn out fine(:

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Thank you for the prayers and I'm going to talk with our housemother- idk if she will be there. We will see!
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Since you said dorm I would talk to the RA

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Emelie is helping me clean up a little, then Em, Alexis and I are going down to talk to our housemother Mrs. Coffey
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That is the right thing to do. Meghan seems to have some kind of melt down and needs some help. Your housemother will know the best way to help her. Good luck.
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Thanks I think Em, Alexis and I will need it
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Take your other 2 friends and confront her. ask her why

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Emelie is helping me clean up and then I'm going to go talk to Mrs. Coffey. (well I guess I'll call her our housemother)
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not to be nosey but please tell me what happends. This is interesting. It would be a great show on tv. gets idea
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I will
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I'm just a little afraid if Mrs. Coffey doesn't believe us... About what she will do next
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So I talked to Meghan about it... She said she hated me and I was fat and ugly and that she hated Russians. She said that she was giving me payback by destroying my stuff. I don't know what I did though!!!!
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thats weird
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No kidding. She moved rooms because if it.
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does she have anything against your other friend. if not have her ask
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