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If we have trust issues and know we are sure to hurt the girl we love, its better to be not committed to her right? I mean stop everything

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I think you should defiantly go for it. If you like her and know you do, then try to overcome the trust issues. If you don't try now, then you'll never get over then. Just my opinion.

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or jst don't have trust issues........uh duh.........

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Yep. Getting involved with her is selfish, if you already go into it knowing you are going to screw it up.

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yepper, time to move on.

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It depends on how long you've been together, because I mean if you've been together for a year or whatever and then just dump her and say you don't want to hurt her then that's gunna be pretty devastating. In which case I'd say try to fix your trust issues, learn to trust her. But if it's only been like a few months, then ye, moving on would probably be the best option.

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Just tell her you love her but eventually she'll get hurt emotionally.

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Why did you get involved in the first place just to hurt someone. Very selfish.

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Yes, better not do things you are not capable of or ready for.
Like having a child , if you know you will not have time for him/her, better not have a child.

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At some stage you need to face your demons. An understanding girlfriend if you were up front with her I'm sure would help you overcome your trust issues. Demons never go away. Are you willing to pass up a great girl each time friendship has the chance to develop further.

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Everybody has trust issues on some level. It all depends on just how much effort you want to put into a relationship. If you are just not 'into' it and find that you can't be honest about it with her .. then, don't even start it.

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