I know this is very painful for you. Right now she hates a lot of things that she truly cares about. If you could give me some more information in the comments, I can try and help. Right now, just tell her you love her no matter what and you always will.
Most teens this age start hating their parents when they are trying to exert more control over their activities than they think is "fair". We used to say "but everybody else is doing it!" to which my father would respond, "I don't CARE what everybody else does, I only care what YOU do!" Then you have to explain why you are making your decision, and try to keep an open mind when she presents her side. Don't be immovable! be open to compromise!
If she asks, (for example), to go out with her mates to town for the first time. Do you think NO WAY! straight away or do you say ill tell you in a minuet hunny then go away and think about her age, independency and trust and then go and tell her the answer. If you just jumpo down her throat immediatly after she askes then she might get huffy and annoyed so it may come across that she hates you when acctualy she dosnt.
I would give her space and see if she comes around most girls do or you should bond with her more take her out some place like dairy queen for ice cream or shopping or if shes in sports go to her games and activites and support her or take her out to dinner just you and her or teach her a lesson show her how lucky she is to have the stuff and care and people who love her rent a movie like the last song by miley cyrus in that movie miley ignores her dad and she finds out he has a horrible condition that will be a eye opener for her or just have her volunteer at shelter or the hospital that will show her alot about respect