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Im 13 and very depressed but dont know why?

I dont have any friends in school and the ones that i hang around with seem to hate me which kinda brings me down and for some reason no one in my school likes me i dont understand because im a very kind and polite person,and theres girls in my class that bully me by calling me names (btw my parents know) and if that wasnt bad enough when i go home my mother isnt so friendly and we usually fight and she sometimes calls me ugly which really makes me depressed .and when i am in a good mood my family all start fighting with me and bringing me down again so i go into my room and cry for hours, i have thought of suicide but never attempted it ,hopefully wont. also guys dont seem to like me and it really makes me feel like im ugly , i know your probably thinking im stupid or something but most people in my class have dated and had their first kiss and french kissed, and im just ..there. and i have nobody to talk to and i mean nobody and i feel like ill never have a boyfriend.. please no nasty comments im bad enough as it is.

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You're only 13, kid...it's sad to think you wanted to commit su!cide. Please, don't ever give up. I know what you're going through...You just have to keep living on, don't let anyone knock you down. Don't turn to su!cide please...Eventually you'll get a friend, and eventually you'll get a boyfriend. Hopefully, you're family life will get better too. And you're only 13, you have a long life ahead of you. Stay strong <3!

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Your Not Ugly, your a young bueatiful young lady. That will grow into a flower. An it doesnt matter if other girls have kissed fremch kissed before.You standout and be a leader.

God Bless You.

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Don't let bullies or anyone bring u Down just remember u have a purpose to be in this world! So don't be depressed! If I were u I would join a sports team for ur school or something then make friends with them! And if ur friends are mean to u now they arent
TRUE friends hope this helps! Stay strong!

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Listen. DON'T KILL YOURSELF. If you are in a religion, pray. And also you're only 13, if people are already French kissing, then some of them are just going to grow up and get STDs. And try to hang out with people like you. And everybody has family issues. And no I don't think you're stupid. I think you should try to be happy more.

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Oh, boy... there are many children that go through this. I went through a very similar thing at your age. Some day you will look back at all of this and just laugh. It will pass as your friends grow up and realize what they are doing is wrong. Dont worry about the suicide, only completely insane people do that. Every one gets these feelings every once in a while. Just keep your chin up.

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We all love you to death babe.

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don't let them bother you.. try to find someone that can relate to you. maybe someone that is being bullied themselves. then maybe you could be friends..btw I've never had a boyfriend either and I'm 13 too

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that is exactly how i feel. I feel like I am going crazy. But what makes me feel better is when I surround myself with my family and people who love me. Just remember someone out there has it worse. I try not to think much of what the people in my school think of me because once I graduate its not like I'll ever see them again. The only opinions that should matter to you are the ones you get when yo walk through your front door

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You just need to remember that you are better than them. That's probably why they pick on you. I went through the same experience because one of the popular girls didn't like me because I was nice to everyone.I even got a threatening note. You can pull through it just like I did. I've never had a boyfriend either. But now I think this guy that I like might like me back. Just remember that you ARE pretty and you ARE better than them and don't give them the satisfaction of knowing they hurt you.

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dON'T DO ANYTHING BAD YOU WANTED TO DO TO YOURSELF!

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ur so called friends r fakes.Ditch them&find new ones who like u.Whn u fight with your mom, Do not argue back,Just sit there&say yes ma'am,Then go 2 ur room&draw, dance, Do something to keep urself calm from crying&get your mind off the current situation&after u are both calm,you can go back to her or whoever you fight with and talk it out. u are way 2 young 2 think about guys, sweetie. Wait till youre atleast 15&get 2 know a guy, become his friend,then his best friend,if he likes you after knowing you a while,He will ask u out.be careful and do not go crying over a boy.Theres no need for those tears untill your 18+Keep your head held up high,shoulders back,and walk on.find someone else.And the girls&guys u talk about who kissed and stuff,They will grow up with broken hearts,do NOT follow their steps&don't worry bout kissin&havin a boyfriend, Think bout friendship&having fun.u ARE beautiful,Inside&out,No matter what anyone tells u.

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It sounds like you're going through a real tough time in your life right now, but remember things will get better! You're only 13, there's plenty of time for relationships. I'm 15 and I'm just starting my 1st. Your friends situation will get better trust me! I was bullied up until grade 8 (Which I'm guessing is the grade you're in now) and had no friends at all, but once I got to high school it all changed, there's so many new people to make friends with. Most people have thought about suicide at some point in their life that doesn't make them depressed. As for the family just remember that there's people off worse so try to be thankful. Also as a reminder depression is a mental illness that cannot be self diagnosed. Even doctors have trouble diagnosing it because it could be anything. Depression is a chemical unbalance in the brain. For now I'm just going to say that it does sound like it will get better with a little time. Remember high school will be a new start! Chin up Hun! If you ever need anyone to talk to you can email me at beckybearie@gmail.com. I like helping people like you and sometimes its easier talking to someone you don't know about this kinda thing.

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