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How can a guy up and leave after 5 yrs. he is 22 I'm 21. He always cheated n I cheated once and he left n started a committed relationship.

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If he cheated, then sure yeah! He already knows that he can walk all over you, and you'll take him back no matter what. Sorry :(

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$h!t, I voted!
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I take it back
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Mwahahahaha! Thank you, good sir!
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Okay, fine! I'll start going to every question you answered and give you pity points! Haha!
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NoooooO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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yes. and I've already started.
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Um yeah.... Seriously, you cheated on each other...... Why would you care? Move on.

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He never loved you hon.

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Both of you guys are messed up. Also, he never loved you.

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if he cheated more then once out of the five years than i don't think he was ever really serious about the relationship in the first place....

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That's about as dysfunctional as it gets..there is obviously nothing that bonds you together, and it last 5 years? The reality is .. It just wasn't meant to be. He has found someone who makes him happy, I suggest you try to get over it and do the same.

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Well, y'all have cheated, so it's very easy for him to leave.

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You're going to h@te me for this... Because unlike you he actually did something about it. You took him back every one of those times and you were the fool for doing it. On the other hand, he didn't take it. He wouldn't take it. He did something about it and when it had been your turn, you didn't. I'm not blaming it on you, but that's how it is. You didn't do anything except take him back.

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I think you answered your own question when you said he always cheated. Why would you even be with a guy like that or even care that he left?

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You will find in life that there are rules for men different rules for women. He did not break up with you because you cheated, he used that as an excuse, he wanted out of the relationship. I know it will be very hard, but try to move on and think Good Riddance!!

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