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My 15 year old friend got pregnant and is being totally immature about it!

She 15, and she had been telling us that she had been missing her period and that she thought he might be pregnant, and today she told me that she had taken the test and that she is pregnant. Based on what she told me, I'd say she's been pregnant about a month. She actually probably got pregnant while she was drunk because she said about a month ago that she had been at a bar and she couldn't remember anything... And also she has a police record... I'm not naming names. Anyways, I'm happy for her o course, but she's treating I like a joke, like it's nothing, I mean this is a big deal!! Luckily, she stopped drinking and doing drugs a while ago. I'll be helping her with things like diet/exercise tips, maternity clothes, baby things, and I'll prepare a small baby shower. But the thing is, she lives in a group home... So this is going to be extra hard on her... What can I do to help her realize that this is no joke and she needs to take this baby seriously!!!?!??? Obviously I'm the only one of her friends who's had a pure past and a pure mind and gonna really take this seriously and care about it.

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well she's 15 afterall , ADOPTION my friend .

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Adoption. The Russians never lie :o

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we are ALWAYS honest :P
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Always... We Scottish and Germans are honest with what we say.
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lol my jewish garndmother wouldn't think so :P for the german part
but i'm sure you scotts are honest .
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lol
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I tried to tell her that she should consider abortion/adoptin, even though I'm pro life, but I don't think she will! She lives in a group home and says if the people there found out she was pregnant, she'd be kicked out! And she's already picking out baby names! I don't know what she's gonna do once it gets big though, eventually, the whole worlds gonna know!
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JuggaloPride
No abortion please?
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Idk that's something soon to come. I suggest y'all do an adoption.
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an abortion when you are 18 and younger ( w/ someone consent) doesn't go on your medical record ( here ) so no one will possibly know .
and anyways she's 15 would she like to ruin the babies life ? stop being selfish and realise that consequences ( to your friend lol not you )
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We Scots are pretty truthful :)
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haha i know how can you lie in a kilt ?
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That's impossible right there lol and we have bagpipes over our shoulders for a reason :)
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haha yeah true .
have you ever wore a kilt ?
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Yeah their very comfortable too actually (no lie) I wear them for tradition or ceremonial reasons.
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oh yeah wow maybe i should start wearing them lol
oh like what for example - so you are prty traditional ?
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Sometimes. I have German, Scottish and Iceland Viking in me.
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i have no viking in me ... none ... nada ... niet lol
but ur more scot than germ yup ?
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It's a half and half. Is there only Russian in you?
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wow u guys need to have a chat on fb or something
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@theanswer99, lol I know right?
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nope i'm ukranian, russian, polish, jewish dude i'm all over the map lol
lol i've spoken to someone on here for like 2 hours .
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Lol I know right?
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isn't it easier to say IKR !!
r u just german and scott.
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No I have Iceland and a little Native American in me. Mostly German and Scottish.
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oh were you born in the states ?
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Yep. I'm a pure Texan :D
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oh we canadians luuvvvee texans :P
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So I hear :D
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lol i hope you got that as a sarcastic comment :P
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I did I'm joking.
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Try to slowly start helping her less, so over time, she'll get more and more responsible baby wise

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I agree with the others, put the child up for adoption. Tell her if she is not going to take this seriously she will loose her child, (If she even cares. -_-") She will get worried and maybe take responsibility for her child.
~ Lots of good luck to you!

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She might be lying.

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i think u are a great and responsible friend for doing this

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15 is just too young to be pregnant...

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That's what I said!
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First of all I want to say how great of a friend you are for helping her through this. And you are right, she needs to realize how serious this is. Just straight out tell her, if she doesn't get her act together and take it seriously she will lose that baby, and that it'll be put up for adoption. Unless of course she doesn't want the baby in the first place and plans on adoption, then playing the adoption card won't work. But even then, tell her that having a baby is a serious responsibility. Even before its born. The only way she'll take it seriously is if she learns how severe the consequences will be.

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