1 year ago
Last edited at 6:00PM on 2/11/2013
I think you found a BF who actually has his head on straight. If you have sex you use them.... simple. Read some of the other questions on here about how she 'thought' she couldn't, or was wondering 'if', or is he didn't .... is she? It's amazing. An OUNCE of prevention is worth 18 years of cure.
BUT, having said that, YOU are too young to have sex.
You don't have to do anything you don't want to do. It's your body. You get to decide what happens to your body. And if he is trying to pressure you then he is no friend, and you should dump the creep. ANd if he is using them with someone else, again dump the creep. He can't be your boyfriend if he can't be your friend.
Ask him where he got them. Maybe he's using them to showoff, brag to friends. Talking, joking about sex at this age is normal. Maybe he even thinks he might have opportunity to use them. Either way he should include your feelings in this. Of course you are way too young to have sex and would never consider this but I have to give him credit for the protection against pregnancy and STD's. Way too young, but he has more smarts than some older teens. Confront him and tell him you hope he's joking.
Uh that's creepy. I would break up with him!!! Your too young to be around a BOY who already thinks being in a relationship requires sex!!! Trust me I made the mistake with guys like that and their not worth it!!!
Maybe he and his parents want to make sure IF you decide to that you guys are safe. I am 16 and a virgin.... But a few girls I know got pregnant in middle school because of no protection. And if you are really worried about it talk to him. Otherwise don't stress about it too much. If he wants to and he tries something tell him; Look if you care about me you will wait until I am ready too.