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Boyfriend goes out he ignores all calls, and text messages. Stays gone for 1 or 2 days MIA. What would you think or do?Should I be upset?

This happens at least twice a month.,,

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I wouldn't be upset. I wouldn't be with the guy so so I wouldn't really care so I wouldn't be upset.

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Ditch him

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Well,I would question him the next time I see him. I would see where we are in our relationship, and if it isn't working out, then move on,

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I wouldn't think or do anything with him. I would have moved on after the first time it happened. Next time this happens change the locks, change your number and move on. In the mean time back his bag and sit it on the porch

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you have every right to be upset, you should sit him down and explain how your not ok with that and make it clear of the consequences if it happens again! Dont let him walk on you!

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from what u are saying I would say he is cheating on u and you should dup his sorry ass...... and get a newer hotter guy to show off.. or the next time u guys interact sit him down and say whats going on and then ask all the question u have for him.. don't be shocked assume the worse that way ur not let down or anything.. Good Luck!

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He's not being true.

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No big explanation needed. Most likely he's with someone.

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Sorry, he is cheating

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I'm with dawn! Change the locks and put ALL his belongings in boxes. Text him and tell him if he doesn't get them by a certain date and time you are calling goodwill. Have the boxes ready by the door. Order 3-5 supreme pizzas (no Beer or alcohol) and invite 3-5 line backers from the local team for a pizza party. When he arrives they can help him carry his krap to the car! Adios!

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I would burn all of his belongings
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Ok... But she could get in trouble for that...but it's the thought that counts! Right?
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Bee, you are hilarious!
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Thanks! My soon to be ex husband didn't think it was too funny. Neither did his girlfriend who came to help him with his krap... Especially when they saw the police cruiser in front of the house and the 2 friendly neighborhood cops ( instead of line backers). The cops were there because one of his footlockers was full of WWII old weapons and ammo. I laughed all the way to the divorce lawyer! Still laughing and happily single! (Btw that was husband #2. I'm still grieving over husband #1.)
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Why do you stay with him?

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That's what I did to my 65 year old husband who was hanky planking with a 23 year old nurse. Except the line backers and pizza party turned into my friendly neighborhood cops! Worked wonders!
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Omg! Bee!! Lol!
I hope the " nurse" got her patient!!!!
Let you off the hook!
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She did. On their wedding night she gave him Viagra. He had a heart attack spent a month in a coma and died in a nursing home. Payback's hell!
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Oh, yes, BTW, he forgot to change the beneficiary on his retirement to his newly beloved's name! Awww! Shucks! Like I said! Payback is hell!
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Don't be surprised if it continues when you get married, if he is the marrying type.

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