Remember give your used toys to the less fortunate. Also make him regret losing you. Find a man that will love and respect you, one more thing, its ok to cry, I recommend that you cry in your mothers arms cause that is always the best place to cry.
Except the loss. You can't make someone be with you if they don't want to be, and consider it an opportunity to find someone who does want to be with you! Spend time with friends and put yourself out there and let all the guys know your available :)
First of all, take this time to improve yourself(for you). Work on your skin, your hair, your nails. Improve your mind, read some good novels. Re do your entire wardrobe, if you can. Feel and look marvelous about you! Then step out there with a new swagger and and a new pair of six guns(attitude)! Nothing bites a guy in his butt, worse than his EX looking all good without him! LOL