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What do you do about an Uncle that's really rude?

My aunts husband I've known for 2 years now. He is always talking major crap about my family. And he's always bugging me about my life. I'm 18 years old and I go college. Its never ending with him. He says he is just ''trying to prepare me for life.''

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You go over to your uncle, and confront him. Tell him that although he is your uncle, you are annoyed that he is continually rude to you!

Honesty is the best option even though it may hurt!

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Ignore him

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I do. It doesn't work. He lives with me too by the way.
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Respect him as an adult to keep others' respect for you. When he bugs you about your life, kindly tell him it's your life and he shouldn't assume you need advice. If you need advice from him you'll ask him for it. If he persists, quit giving him responses.

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The thing is I always do stay quiet. Even when he talks trash about my family. But I'm getting sick and tired of him.
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Do your parents know he talks poorly about your family?
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My step dad does but he doesn't say anything. He figures he has a right to his opinion.
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You as a young adult can't exactly do anything about it. The only thing I can suggest is to take it to someone you trust who has correlation to family affairs and let them know your uncle's actions bother you.
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Yes that is very true. Thank you.
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Glad to help, Rose. :)
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Either your honest and let him know he's disrespecting you and you would like it to stop OR you just keep it moving and ignore .

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stay away from him and ignore him. he will eventually back off.

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I never say anything. And the worst part is, is that he lives with me!
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yepper, he is hitting on you. all you can do is just stay away from him as much as possible and ignore him.
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What?! No that's just the type of guy he is. He talks trash about mostly everyone. He's from Tennessee.
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well, all you can do then is as said earlier. sounds like someone from Tennessee.
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Thank you. I will try. Haha
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Ignore an stay away from him you have to deal with him

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