I recently moved to an area with extremely hard water, what can I use to soften my hair since it now feels very coarse? Usually very soft
Sally's Beauty Supply sells shampoo for that. I broke down and got a whole house water softener.
You can start using a good quality shampoo like Pantene Pro-V. You'll still have soft hair even when using hard water, as long as you use the shampoo as well as conditioner.