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Bad Boy Issues?

I am dating the schools "bad" boy, he is really attention seeking and acts out for no reason...i have tried talking to him about it and he doesn't really pay attention to what i say or try to change anything,i knew what i was getting myself into with this relationship but i didn't think it would be this bad. Also if i say something that kinda offends him or the way he and his friends act, he goes on instant flatter mode...and im not dumb, i know he does it just so i will forget what i was talking to him about (most of the time it works though) i dont really know what to do at this point, i dont want to loose this relationship, but i dont really want things to continue the way they are..help???

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You are dating a "bad" boy and you wonder why he's acting like a giant baby brat?..... Just break up with him, it's not worth the drama.

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maybe he had something dark in his past just try figuring more about it :)
and the relation may not change so make your decision according to the worst case scenario

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i guess
*puts sunglasses on*
he is to cool for school yeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaahhhhhh!
but i think you should break up with him anyone labeled a "bad boy" is just a poser

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Break up

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Tell him how you feel and make sure he listens. If you don't you will never truly be happy. If worse comes to worse dump him. Plain out don't try to ease him in. Tell him straight and then he can't weasel out of loosing you. You sound like you can do much better. Don't let his friends get involved ok? Do what you think is right.
Or If he gets better then worse remind him how much fun it is when there is only you two, don't let his friends change your relationship. I hope this helped. Remember some times you have to fight for what you want.

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you should break up with him because if he cant listen to the person who loves him and cares fah him then there is no need to keep him around because there might be a chance he might do sumthing he not suppose to your life will be in danger along with him cuz yu r already labeled his girlfriend so to save yourself the pain and suffer leave him and find somebody who will love you for you and care fah you

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break up and live your life

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Congrats on your new puppy. You really need to train him and not let him train you if you're going to keep him. He acts badly and people, even you, reward him with attention. Now why would he want to stop badly if you keep rewarding him? The same with when you say something that offends him. He's a like a baby throwing a tantrum that you reward by giving him the result he wants. What makes it worse is that you're inconsistent about it so he'll keep doing it thinking eventually he'll get the results he wants.

Everyone is telling you to break up with him and I agree. But if you're going to continue your relationship with someone who's immature, treat him like a kid until he grows up. Be consistent and don't reward his tantrums and one day, if you're lucky, you will have raised a man.

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First of all, DON'T let him over rule you with flattery and let him win at that childish game. He does this because he knows that you'll always give in to him. Really, he's a "bad boy" for a reason, he's got the name for a reason. And "bad boys" usually turn out to be the most immature boys. So, stop trying, and break up unless you just like it but don't know it.

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Don't even start. Bad boys are just drama. It'll give you a bad rep too.

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