Just try to be on her good side. I don't have one either, but trying to communicate and being a nice person should generally make the other happier and nicer and possibly closer to you. Family is important. Do anything you can to become closer if you want to or not. One day they shall be gone, and you will have nothing left. I would know
i am assuming that you are still living at home? until my daughter moved out of home (at 18), she and i had a very rocky relationship. i was constantly ruining her life and she was constantly pushing the limits. that is just part of the growing up process. remember that you don't get a lot of chances to make things right, and once you say something, it is said. even if you do not mean it and are just angry, the hurt is there. my daughter and i now get along and are very close. i think when she was living at home, we were too much alike. oh, my daughter is now 21. - hope this helps.