Who has any advice for me? My husband thinks my job is easy.
My husband thinks my stay at home mom job is easy with 2 babies. One is 18 months and the other is 7 months which they act older and are doing everything early like 1-2 months early; even 3 months early. I make sure bills are paid, do the shopping, make appointments, clean, do laundry, and more. I NEVER get any rest. I am on call 24/7. If they nap, its for 10 minutes so that means no nap for me. He don't want to help with the kids whatsoever. Don't get me wrong but I do love our kids and would do anything for them but I'm SO TIRED I am getting cranky. and have had horrible pounding headaches and that's just the start. That don't include his controlling and manipulative and overprotective mom. which is more stress on me. which that's a story in itself. he don't understand what I put up with. all he does is do dishes and make sure pizzas are out. he works up at a college. he even gets a break that I don't get. and when he is home he is too tired to spend time with us like his job is SO HARD. He works 8-9 hours and his job is done. Any advice?