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is it wrong to move on from your childhood friend?

ok so I'm in 7th grade and me and my friend have been BEST FRIENDS since 3rd grade! I love her to death and I was always there for her but she's got to a point where she's changed. like ever since she moved into her aunts she became a spoiled brat and rude. than she started to become really really rude because of her ex boyfriend. she's nasty now too and she hangs out with bad people and I don't know if I wanna hangout with her if she's gonna become like that, like them. she's not the same person she was. we fight constantly and yes I'm over protective but I'm just tryna look out for her

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People change sweetie. You have changed since 3rd grade. You can't expect her to be the same person she was. We ALL change. Is it wrong that you don't feel that "friend" connection anymore? No it's not, because like her, you too have changed. You need to do what you feel is right. You need to look out for yourself. Protect yourself. No-one is going to do those things for you, but YOU. If you feel like she isn't good enough for you, there is no shame in that.

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Hi there CJ! Just finished a late night/early morning workout. Just wanted to drop by to wish you a wonderful night! Hope to hear from you soon!
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Thanks T. Hope you have a great week. Probably won't see you around til Sunday evening. :)
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Do you Boo boo

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if these are the real conditions... then theirs nothing wrong in moving on ahead in life!!!

And just remember- "Friends are made, to make our own life fun and enjoyable, but if instead they make it miserable..... its better to be alone than to be with some one who's not worth you!!!"

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that is very sweet about you that you care about your friend and you seem to be a good friend but my dear girl people change as the grow up and you should learn to adjust with these changes i think even you should move on there is nothing wrong in that its better to have just 1 or 2 best friends whom you can trust than have a whole group of bossy fake mean group of friends ..........my dear girl always remember if you are trustworthy and sweet you can find millions of good friends around you whom you can be friends for life.......

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Fix it disconnect from it. It doesn't matter to me as long as you learn from your choice.

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Yeah these people are right people change. You can't expect to have the same friends all your life. This will happen in the future with other friends as well. Enjoy friendships while they last and find other friends when it's time to move on. In this case you should move on.

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People told me when I was younger, that my friends and I wouldnt' be friends after college. And boy were they correct. I didn't believe them at the time, because I like all younger kids, thought I knew everything.
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Actually I have only have one friend from H.S. who I no longer keep in touch with. I'm happy keeping friends for life, but that just works for me.
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not to minimize your plight dear, it's called growing up. Natural as rain. Focus on the friends you've yet to meet!

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I know but when I mean change she's 13 and she already lost her virginity. And she hangs out wit the wrong people. The ones that smoke and stuff.
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