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Do you believe once a cheat always a cheat?

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helixaqua

No...look at the Patriots. They can't win since they can't cheat.

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This answer is the best. There is no argument there.
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lol!!! Thanks!
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Well ! Don't you dare pick on the Patriots. The nerve. I'm from MA.
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Yeah helix!!!.....that was horrible!!
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No...If I was to believe that, then that would make me seem ignorant if that person changed.

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yes i do

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yes I do very much

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This is a kind a question that i have not yet figured out...

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yes

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not always... people change :)

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no because a person can always change if you believe they can...

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Wrong, you can believe they are a turnip, but that doesn't mean they will become one! They have to want to change and take the steps to doing it!
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Nope they will change if they believe they can.
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i dont believe that but some people dont really change

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I don't EVER categorize all people with one specific trait...because in reality not all people have exactly the same reasons.

Some people do change and are truly repentant for their wrong doings...then, some aren't so much. There is a huge difference between the two demographics.

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No..... I believe people can change.

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yea your always a cheater. ..you smoke crack once that make you a crack head right

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No

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I pretty much do, but, of course, there are always exceptions.

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No, because a person can mature and fix his or her infidelity issues. However, I'm of the opinion that if they are willing to cheat on their SO with you, there's nothing stopping them from cheating on you with someone else.

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nope..cause people makes mistakes..

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XxSk8erChickxX

Yes and once a liar. Always a liar. People never change unless they realize what they've done, themselves. It's very complicated to change a person. It would take a real motivational speaker and a genius to change someone. People make mistakes, yes, but a lot of people do not fix those mistakes. It's someone else that has to do it for them.

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So you and every other human on wart is a liar?
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What? I didn't even say or mean that.
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Lol I meant earth, that's spell check for you.
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FunnyLittleFrog

No, I think it's more complicated than that.

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No

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No. But it does hold true for some people because they have larceny in their heart. Some people cannot be trusted ever to do the right thing even when no one is looking.

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I want to change my response to "probably, yes".
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I agree! once it happens to you, it makes it near impossible to trust the other person..been there!
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Yes I do, I had girlfriends cheat on me before, and I would never trust them again. Relationships are built on trust and if they cheated on you one time who says it can't be done again. You have to be strong and stand up to your partner and tell them they can't do this to you and then break up with them, you can do a lot better.

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depends on who you're talking about

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I always give people the benefit of the doubt but in my personal experience, yes. Once a cheater always a cheater.

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No that's not always true. People can change. There are many circumstances to consider

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Oh, yes.

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it honestly depends if they're willing to change if they really love you.

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I cheated on my first wife with another woman and I never thought of her feelings and I didn't care. I was an arrogant selfish bastard and it didn't matter that I put my kids through Si much pain. The woman I had left my wife for cheated on me and I got the taste of my own medicine. It hurt like no other and I finally learned a valuable lesson. I vowed and swore that I'd never do it again. Remarried now for 8 years and happily married. The regrets of hurting my kids is still with me but after forgiveness I'm learning to move on. Cheating is not worth it

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Yes!!!

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Yes!

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Definitely!

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Yes, It doesn't matter if you say your not going to again, you still did it. Your still a cheater !

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no , because everyone is different , some are really sorry for it , some ain't.
It depends on what type of person they are and who knows them better will tell u if they are really sorry for it.

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no i had cheated once never did it again to anyone!!!

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it depends on the person and how much you are in love.
rrelationshipsare built on trust

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No, People change all the time.

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