You can go and you don't have to tell him anything.....you guys aren't together so you don't owe him anymore than the other guy.
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I don't believe it is rude from the way you explained it. But then again, I know little to nothing of this holiday called "Valentines".
You are free to see anyone you want. Have fun!!
I agree with Gator_12
You should go...And don't forget to follow your heart, not your mind (in this case)
I agree! You have no commitment to either. Have fun! You deserve to enjoy being single and dating. It's a date, not an engagement. WOOOWHOOO! The Ninja is back!
Happy Valentine's Day!
My car has "severe pulsation" in the brakes. The front rotors need to be machined. What?!? Wat dat mean?
It depends on if the guy you don't know if your dating is taking your 'relationship' seriously. As in, if he thinks your actually dating or not. If he doesn't think your dating then it should be alright to go out with this other guy that asked you.
Now that is hard to say .. only because there are not enough details to explain the relationship that is being developed with this certain someone. If this guy is special, and you are hoping for it to develop into something more serious, and he hasn't asked you yet .. then ask HIM out for Valentines day.. If he is not so special, and you are so inclined to turn your attentions elsewhere .. go for it.
and about 'telling' this guy about your whereabouts .. I would never suggest to lie. Honesty is always the best policy...especially if you want to keep his friendship. Be open and honest, and if he's not interested in you 'in that way' .. then THAT should also be vocalized.
Follow your heart. This could go either way. It could make the guy you're seeing realize that you are ready to date. Or, it could make him think you are not really interested in him. Consider how your relationship is at this point. How secure is it? Good luck!
Yes. It's very rude. It'll probably ruin whatever you two have.
Hm... If I answer this question, what's in it for me?
Well if he likes you he should step up to the plate and ask you out , and if you want to go out with him tell him , if he says no , go with the other guy .
You're young ! Play the field and have fun ! No commitments till Mr Right comes along ! I wouldn't say a word to the other guy or anyone else ! It's YOUR life , not theirs . Go out and have some fun ! As long as you're single , make the most of it . Yeah , the other guy might be PO'd , but that's life . You snooze you lose ! Take your time and HE will come into your life and you will know that this is the guy for you ! Till then , date whoever you want and have fun !
Well you are single, so it's really your decision, it might be taken kinda rudely by guy #1, sounds like he's focusing on you if he wants YOU to be his valentine. But it's really up to this first guy to step in and be a man if he has a problem with it
im kinda in the same boat.
im with a guy ive liked for 5 years. and my ex boyfriend of 6 months is wanted to talk to me, and knowing him, its probably about wanting to get back with me. i love my ex alot, and i do my bf too.
i guess just do what you want, noone can stop you.
Your smart... you know your rebounding from a fresh breakup..
Have fun! But allow yourself time to heal and you will be healthier for it :)
You hussy...toying with the hearts of two innocent young lads! =P
You're not even dating him so I don't see the issue although I feel for the first guy. It sounds like he doesn't want to be the "rebound guy" and is going to end up losing his shot with you.
He might be too nice and sensitive for his own good too. If you've told him you're ready to see other people, he should take you for your word instead of trying to read your mind. Unless you constantly talk about your ex and/or you're stalking your ex. Then this guy has a point. =]
You're not in a real relationship..so it's really up to you. I do believe the other guy would have some hurt feelings though...so you should take that into consideration before you decide.
