Is it that important for the guys to always make the 1st move on the lady's ?
Guys love it when girls make the 1st move, it takes the pressure off. It ain't like a guy is gonna say "Stop that!" haha!
Well, most women I know of want equality so I say no. Just because he's a guy, doesn't mean he's the one who needs to make the first move.
I would PREFER I make the first move. Else I don't appreciate the girl as much. The "chase" is part of what makes it exciting.
Girls hit on my all the time that's boring...it's the ones that I have to go after that makes it fun.
As long as SOMEBODY makes the move, does it really matter?
We can answer you for days, but if you have a certain girl in mind, only what she thinks would matter. Now you've gotta figure out what she wants:)