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bubalu:
3 months ago
Do NOT get pregnant. If he has doubts, getting pregnant and having a baby will mostly not solve anything. It gets tougher with a kid.
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adrien29:
3 months ago
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I know he says that he doesn't want anyone else to take care if his child
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cox0904:
3 months ago
Then that means the only reason he would be staying with you is not because he loves you, but because he doesn't want to leave his child.
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bubalu:
3 months ago
I'm concerned he said he only wants to be with you if you're pregnant. And what if he decides later that it didn't really change anything? I think he needs to figure out his doubts before you guys decide on having a kid because even if he has to pay child support, there's nothing stopping him leaving and finding someone else. The decision is up to you, but you have to be prepared if things don't work out.
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adrien29:
3 months ago
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I told him that even if I find out that I am pregnant that we don't have to be together and I don't wanna be with anyone because we have a child together
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bubalu:
3 months ago
btw I'm not saying you should break up with him because having doubts about a relationship here and there is normal. I'm saying I don't think getting pregnant is the answer.
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adrien29:
3 months ago
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Then he says he's not trying to Be selfish but then he won't explain
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bubalu:
3 months ago
If he's not trying to explain or communicate what he's going through, that seems troubling. I understand the whole being a guy and not talking about your emotions, but if he loves you and wants you to stay, he should make an effort. This might be something you have to deal with for a long time if you have a kid with him.
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adrien29:
3 months ago
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I took a pregnancy test and he tells me to do whatever makes me happy
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PandorasFunnyBox:
3 months ago
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Last edited at 12:47PM on 2/13/2013
It sounds like he's using you.
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I kind of felt bad because we had moved into a house together and like that was for us
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Ninja_Jackie_san:
3 months ago
I just broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years 3 weeks ago. We were living together. Yes it's very hard for a little bit, but it will get better. Don't feel bad, he isn't worth your time :)
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DeclairedOk:
3 months ago
Where's the diamond ring, and the Wedding Day that is the heart's desire of most women?
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Ninja_Jackie_san:
3 months ago
I cried for a week on and off, and then started hanging out with family and a new guy. I kept myself busy with moving out and school work as well :)
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I don't want to have a child with him now that I know he has doubts about us we were previously engaged before bug I broke it off because of him cheating on me and got me an apt and just been back and forth
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Ninja_Jackie_san:
3 months ago
And he cheated on you too?! Oh boy... I would break up with someone just for that
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DeclairedOk:
3 months ago
No brainer. If he cheated then, he'll cheat again. He sounds like a selfish JO
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I'm not pregnant I took a test then he says do whatever you wanna do
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DeclairedOk:
3 months ago
Drop him like a used tampon
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Ninja_Jackie_san:
3 months ago
But don't drop the tampon on the floor, or your dog will eat it....
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ProlemSolver:
3 months ago
break up with him bc if he said that he just wants sex
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chelsea2015brown:
3 months ago
Prob to tell people that he is only with you bc you are pregnant. Or the good side of it is he wants to have more with you and have a child.
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Quester2011:
3 months ago
I'm sorry to hear that hon, really I am. If you're both willing to work it out you can give it your best effort. Just look at it this way - it's better to know now, than for him to try and hide it from you.
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cyber0:
3 months ago
Whatever you do, don't get pregnant! Give this guy a quick and sure goodbye.
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I wasn't trying to get pregnant he said today that he was going to buy the pregnancy test because we live together at the moment but I do have my own place
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Ninja_Jackie_san:
3 months ago
Get out of there! I know it will hurt, but he is trying to control and pressure you. Sounds like a jerk to be honest.
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DeclairedOk:
3 months ago
Just like the age old problem. Men think with their hormones because of their lack of any other resources.
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Well he is 40 he says if I am pregnant he is going to marry me and I told him I refuse to be with anyone because we have a kid together
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Ninja_Jackie_san:
3 months ago
It doesn't sound like he loves you for YOU
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DeclairedOk:
3 months ago
Adrien. He is snowjobbing you in the worst way possible. It would also become a shameful situation for your child.
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DeclairedOk:
3 months ago
The majority of folks commenting are of the same opinion. We can't all be wrong!
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Ninja_Jackie_san:
3 months ago
It's true, DeclairedOk. Ask.com helped me break up with my jerk of a boyfriend!
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DeclairedOk:
3 months ago
Thanks for the spelling correction adrien. Please accept all the answers, corrections, and comments from your caring community. Make the right choice.
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DeclairedOk:
3 months ago
A clean way of saying he's bullshitting you
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I found out that I wasn't pregnant now he's saying do whatever you want to do
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pimpdady69:
3 months ago
u should give him v
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DeclairedOk:
3 months ago
Ignore the rude comment adrien, His username describes his intellect.
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lizakitty:
3 months ago
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He's a controlling jerk. Run away as fast as you can. Don't punish a child being born into this unhealthy relationship.
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DirectionerForever98:
3 months ago
after you do the pregnancy test, whether it's negative or positive, tell him it's negative, then get out of there, break up with him. get an abortion if needed, but do NOT let him catch on that you are doing it.
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I found out that I wasn't pregnant and now he's saying do whatever you want
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DirectionerForever98:
3 months ago
ok, then if I were you I'd ditch him quickly and get the h*** out of there.
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Wow. "I want to break up, but I want to get you pregnant." Think about how ridiculous that sounds for a few minutes.....
Stay on birth control!!!
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What I'm trying to say is think about what his behavior and attitude is toward you. Some one who says things like that does not honestly care for you.
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Thanks for your answer I really value other people's opinion thanks really appreciate your honesty this is only going to help me and make me stronger
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bikergirl40:
3 months ago
DUMP HIS ASS! Immediately! Anyone who says something like that has no true feelings for you. A relationship should NEVER be hinged on blackmail or manipulation. He's a loser .. You can do much better!!!! Run and don't look back!
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I took a test I'm not pregnant now he tells me to do whatever I want to do
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