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I am having an issue at school, people are making fun of me, and it's making me deppressed, what should i do and the things they say hurts.

every thing was fine then all of sudden my friends don't talk to me, and people call me hurtfull names, i want this to stop i want to feel the happyness i once felt a long long time ago

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You need to prove them wrong.
By that, be confident. Show them you're the only one in charge of your life.
Ignore them, and smile more often than you usually do.
Don't show any sign of weakness, and build on your confidence...That´s VERY important.

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resend it Phlorence.....it's stuck
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this answere is so much like my mom, she told me not show any sign of tears just to come home and cry
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Lol ok
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Google translate sucks
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Haha yup
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Don't laugh BRO -__________-
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Well, if you didn't get my last email, i said bye..talk to you tomorrow, and have a good night :)
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I didn't get it.....bye! :)
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Hotmail sucks >:(
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use your Gmail BRO
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Ah yes!! I forgot I even had that lol
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Where would you be without me GoodyGoody?
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That's a tough question. You just have to hold your head up high and don't let them get the best of you.

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Go talk to you guidance councillor. Tell her what's going on and have her call the girls into her office to see if you can talk it out.

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oh i did that, they are considered the top good students and they put on this act of i will never do that to anyone
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Your teachers must see it. Try telling them.
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will I go by this you know what you are and what you are not you know what you do and don't do do not listen to stupid people I know it hurts but they will regret it in the long run good lucky hope this helps yo u

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don't let them steal your joy people gone talk rather your doing good or bad don't let them control your life who cares what they have to say what do they do for you just get your education the main ones that's talking sh$t to you is probably the same ones that have darker secrets then you do or have it rough then you do so you boo and let them just talk only you can control your life don't let nobody control it for you don't let them see you sweat HAVE A GOOD LIFE

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sometimes you do something and you dont really notice but i dont think thats whats going on. I think some one might be jealous of you and they made up a rumor about you that aint true, maybe you should talk to your mom or you can talk with the principle too. Try asking them why they calling you names and if you dont figure that out on your own then talk to the principe or your mom because thecnequally thats bulling and bulling is against the law so its very serious. Try to figure it out on your own if it doesnt work talk to an adult. all the time keep your head up high. dont listen to them, smile make faces at them just show that they arent boderignyou and they will leave you alone. act professional

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Keep your chin up. If it gets to bad, talk to your parents about it. My question to you is, what happened? A large group of people don't go to bed one night as friends with you, and then wake up the next day, no longer your friends.
How did it go from fine to terrible?

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i asked one and she said, i'm boring and this thing about bad luck
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Oh,RedStar, I'm so sorry that these so called friends are treating you like that. No one deserves treatment like that. Some kids are leaders and some have no original thought process and will follow these bullies just to be cool. I do know, in time you will find a new group of friends and you won't be like your old friends and treat others so rudely. If they continue to bully you, please talk to an adult you trust. And keep being you, don't change to fit into a crowd.
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Tell them to bug off! You are an amazing person, and there is no reason for them to hurt your feelings. Hang out with people that actually care about you and wont leave when some one more popular comes by. Hold your head high and dont give them the satisfaction of thinking they are winning.

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these people i grew up with, and all of a sudden they are not my friends, it hurts what they say to me
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Im so sorry for what you are going through redstar. I had to deal with the exact same thing in middle school, and Im sure if I was at a regular high school I would be going through the same thing still.
Just realize that you are an amazing person. Dont let others get you down.
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thank you this really helps
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sometimes you have to learn that as long as you make it through the day nothing they say matters. if the whole world turns its back on you, turn your back to the world

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you have to love yourself dont let others hurt you be strong

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Just ignore them they have nothing better else to do its because their life is bad and they are jealous of you! Just walk right past them like you don't see them hang out with the ones that don't treat you like that that make you happy.. just worry about your education it's more important anyways its hard to trust people its not about how many friends you have worry about your school work not them (:

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"Don't worry, Be happy" Takes more than sugar to make lemonade, utilize all resources available to help smooth matters over. Still, at times a little bit of grit ends up in the mix. Sometimes, a little "Nancy Drew" (I.Q.) is due. Do the "due" and yahoo! Counting on you girlfriend. Gotta go, someone called "Hardy" is standing by.

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If its really bad change schools it's the best way, or you can try making a new you like dress different, make your self look good (make sure you smile and smell good) start working out, learn how to fight when people see that you got something coming in your life they will be jealous but If some one hits you and bullies you tell someone or beat the hell out of them if noone what's to help you.

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oh i know how to fight, but if i get into a fight my parents will kick me out
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Oh well then don't do that lol but don't let them get to you !
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i will try not to let them
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I have had that problem my whole life. It sounds to me that you don't know why they're doing it but if you could figure that out you could change it. Also remember that depression is a mental illness that can not be self diagnosed. The biggest thing that I found that helped was that when they do something mean don't let them know it bothers you! Don't ask sad and don't snap back at them. If you let them know it bothers you they will just keep doing it more. Heads up! Things will cool down eventually. :)

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Um ignore them , or find new friends that have the same interests as you.

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I know people are telling you to ignore them but did YOU do anything that might offend them? Even if it was indirectly?? I know too many people who love playing victims.

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i don't recall doing anything, wait i think i know what it is, it's not what i did it's what i did not do, i didn't do what they want they wanted me to bye them cigerets and i said i can't, i mean i need the money for more important things like my sezuirs medication they got angy and said i will regret it
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In that case ignore them, you're better than that.
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