How do I get over jealousy? (And some anger)
My girlfriend sometimes doesn't know where to stop, she thinks she's making me feel better but it's actually making things a lot worse. (This is the anger part, by the way) She no longer attempts to make me feel better when something bothers me. Instead she will just jump straight to anger, and she tells people I get mad first (Please do NOT suggest breaking up, I have heard enough about that) When I asked her about it, she says that I "Get mad over stupid stuff". The stuff I get mad over is jealousy stuff (It weaves together). It's usually something small like she calls other guys hot when neither of us are very attractive ourselves, and this can't be an act of equality (trying to get back at me for doing that) because I don't do that. In fact, I always tell her I ONLY like her, Other times I get mad that her friends do stuff to make me jealous purposely, such as grabbing my girlfriends boobs in public and saying "It's normal, all girls do it" yet never in my life have I seen this happen. What can I do to get over the anger and jealousy? Please help me!!!
UPDATE: Last she said "I have a terrible life, and I'm a bad person because I take it out on you"