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maggie25: 3 months ago

At work, there's this guy i find attractive, but i can't seem to approach him nor introduce myself to him,any advice?

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DavidSchaedler: 3 months ago via Android

Valentine's Day - I read 37% of relationships start in the office.

1) Find a common ground and 'make-up' something - anything will do, if you both want continued relationship, things'll happen. Don't overdo it at the start.
2) Play a game with him( just not later) to introduce yourself to him - toss a crunched up paper was and go pick it up - don't tell him who! Say "sorry! ", and just start talking, like you're covering the paper wad 'fight'...
3) Ask him about an irrelevant office 'rule', say you're new...
4) sit at his table at lunch...
5) ask to borrow something...
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maggie25: 3 months ago

i'll try that tomorrow, thanks(:

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pitbullmom2: 3 months ago

Don't date people you work with. If you break up your going to have to look at him every day and won't that be awkward?????

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Quester2011: 3 months ago

Add that many companies have a "no dating in the workplace" policy.

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maggie25: 3 months ago

well, it's an internship. the year is almost over but i never got the guts to tallk to him o.o

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Tony737: 3 months ago | Last edited at 4:59PM on 2/14/2013

Have a work-related reason to speak to him. Then the next day just say hello. The third day say "Hi, how are ya?". Each do stay just a little bit longer.

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KnightrousX: 3 months ago

Approach him and introduce yourself to him.

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FunnyLittleFrog: 3 months ago

Walk up and say "Hello" Don't be shy.

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Doc1887: 3 months ago

Don't get involved romantically with someone you work with.I speak from experience,no good will come of it.

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bjarrell: 3 months ago

yes

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fritzmerde: 3 months ago

Are you in the same department, building & or cubicle area? If you're going to be working together on a daily basis you may want to rethink starting something. If you're working for a larger company & if things go bad you can transfer easily, or the position isn'timportant-than do what Tony has suggested. it's the easiest in & believable.Once you break the ice then start to query him

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maggie25: 3 months ago

well, it's an internship & i only see him at monthly workshops

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Shrimp61: 3 months ago

Follow your heart

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Girliegirl2012: 3 months ago | Last edited at 5:17PM on 2/14/2013

Some companies do not allow fraternizing. You may want to check that out. Not worth losing your job over from not knowing.
It is wise to use the phrase--Don't find your honey where you make your money.

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diamond122: 3 months ago

You can make your self noticeable and he'll come to you just be yourself and shine:)

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