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Ok, so this girl keeps trying to argue with me... what do I do?

ok i have been friends with this girl since 1st grade and she always tries to fight with me and i always try to avoid it... but today she made the rudest comment what do i do... confront her about it, or leave it alone?

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Confont her, and tell her to leave you alone.

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Good strategy
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thanks my consouler taught me that in my bully-aid class
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Confront her. Let her know you're not tolerating anymore and she needs to back off.

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Way to go!
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lol Thanks
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When she wants to fight, play dumb.

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why would i do that?
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Don't do that
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She will want to start a fught, but it takes two to tango. And if you take everything in a way that it wouldnt cause arguing, then she cannot. For an example, I would need a situation, or a cause. Or something to work with.
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yeah well i am very smart not dumb so it would make me look bad.
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Just give her a good butt-kickin
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r u stalking me? every time i comment u comment like rite after me? i'm not tryin to b mean i am curious
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Not at all.. The activity lite goes on, so I comment when necessary.
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oh... ok.
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You dont get what I mean by play dumb? Act as if you didnt knew or didnt unnderstand what is wrong. And like in an episode of the series Bones someone said: Smart people make themselves seem dumber than they really are. That way, the other people think they are fooling them, but they really arent. Someone could scam you by making you think you re smarter than them until its too late. Just act as if you didnt knew what was wrong. Not by ignoring what she says, but by giving it a meaning that isnt wrong. Or giving it a meaning other than the one she gives it, always when its to avoid fight and notr to cause it.
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Ask your coach to let you two use the wrestling mat. As long as you back off she's gonna pick on you. Kick-her-butt-good... She will then learn to respect you.

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Sometimes it burns people up more when you don't reply and give them satisfaction

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Attack of the killer tomatoes is my favorite movie

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