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I always model myself after a female role model or teacher that I like and it gets to the point where (cont below)

i start dressing in a way i think the teacher would like because its usually a teacher just hoping to get a compliment or get noticed or get some type of approval from that teacher and i was just windering why i do this and if its bad to do it like tonight i painted my nails just because i figured out that my teacher likes painted nails but its not like i dont get approval at home cause i do constantly amd i really wonder if this is bad and why i do this

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If it makes you happy and doesn't bother anybody, who cares?

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I know but im just curious as to why i do this
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Because you are unsure of your own taste so you pick someone you admire to emulate. If other people like what you are doing, great! If not, you don't have to feel bad about it because you know you are just copying what someone else is doing, so it is really that other person who is getting the disapproval, even if they don't know it.
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