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i have my period and I tried everything to make the pain go away, I can't even stand, please give me advice, and FASSST...

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RedRose

lots and lots of advil and chocolate. get a heating pad or hot water bottle and watch movies in bed til the pain goes away. I feel your pain! (literally. every month.)

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ha
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thanks, i really used your help and it worked :D!
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Midol, Bananas, Exersice, Heat pack

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wow, why bananas, and whats Midol? the heat pack worked but the Exersiceing caused heavey bleeding and more cramps.
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thanks, i really used your help and it worked :D!
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Bananas usually help with cramps when you are low on potassium. It usually doesn't help me with menstral cramps though.
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Believe it or not drinking a Dr. Pepper helps with the pain because of the prune juice. Heating pad, Midol for sure, and chocolate... That usually works for me and I get really bad back pain and cramps.

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really? theres prune juice in dr pepper??
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Yup. I was told that a long time ago by an older lady and I started trying it and it actually helps a lot.
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cool, loved your answer
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thanks, i really used your help and it worked :D!
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but i'm olny 13 so i can't drive
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Glad I could be of service ladies :)
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yea I get really bad pain and cramps too, when i wrote this i was sweating and in tears
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Poor thing. Just remember it will pass. I know the pain but knowing it will end soon is a relief.
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yea
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i'm so glad my little brother isn't a girl because he won't even allow our family to say the word blood, he makes us say " the B word", lol
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my brothers don't know about periods
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lol that will be a rude awakening.
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haha, how old are you?
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25 :) old
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i'm 13
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are you a mom? or married? Because I want to ask you something...
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Not a mom and recently divorced. I was married 5 years. Ask me anything.
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well the other day ummm... All the kids were out of the house except for my 3 and 2 year old brothers who where a sleep down stair. I was supposed to be out until 10 with my friends because it was a weekend, but I forgot my Jaket upstairs in my room.
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When I got closer to my door I heard Silent screeming sounds so I slowed down and quietly went and opened my door.
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k... go on.
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I saw my dads priviate part in my moms priviate on my floor with this white sticky stuff everywhere! I stood there for what felt like an hour. when my dad saw me he grabbed my arm and my mom pulled the blanket of my bed and cover her self with it.
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lol really? If you really are 13 this shouldn't be that big of a shock to you, if it is and you really don't know what was going on then you need to ask your parents. Just tell them to use their own room next time.
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She told me that this was natraul and everyone does it its another way of telling each other that we love each other. And I wasn't supposed to see that and I could'nt here much because I was crying.
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They started at each other in front of me to show me it was OK, My moms breast where moving so fast it must have been killing her and the there was those Silent screeming sounds again she was in pain and my dad was rocking back and forth even faster than fast and didn't care!!
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I have never seen anything like it, not from my mom and dad not from my friend I swear I am 13
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why was she I left the room and slept in my sisters room because she was at some place for the whole night. I haven't talked to them since. What should I do.what was happening? what was that white stuff, why was she screaming if she was injoying it?
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I haven't spoke to either of them for like almost a week but they keep trying to reapprouch the topic. Should I never speak to them agian?
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please help me I feel like my world fell apart and I trusted you enough to ask you this.
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have you and you husband done it before?
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Ex-Husband, sorry
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Talk to your parents. It is natural and they should be the people to explain this to you in their way. They should have had this talk with you long before this happened so this wouldn't be so tramatic. Your world is not falling apart, you just didn't understand what you saw. Don't be mad at your parents. Approach them and ask them to explain what happened in there and ask them these same questions you are asking me. They can explain everything to you in a way that will make sense and yes my husband and I have engaged in the same thing, my boyfriend and I do now. It is something that is natural when you love someone and when you are an adult and old enough to understand such strong emotional feelings. Trust me, ask you parents about these things as soon as you possibly can so you won't be tortured by this any longer.
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i'll try. can you at least tell me what its called, so i will be prepared to know what is about to be said?
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i'll try to do it ASAP but it won't be easy... I'll tell you how it goes if you want?
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It's called sexual intercourse.
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O.K. thanks, here they come...
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lol good luck sweetie. :)
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guess what!
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what?
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Its over!! and wasn't so hard either they only told me a few thing that I needed to know, They didn't tell me what the white stuff on the floor was but they did say it came from my dads dick. They said they didn't expect me to see them and they where being a little careless and thoughtless because they thought everyone was out. They where in my room because it was the second biggest bed room in the house and they couldn't do it in there room because the babies were sleeping in there.
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She said she was screeming because it was painfull but it felt good, I still don't understand that.
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Well all I can say is do research. If they haven't talked to you about what sex is and what is involved and how a woman gets pregnant (semen/the white stuff) then you need to research it yourself. My parents never told me about any of it and i had to learn the wrong way. Learn about STDs, safe sex, and the reproductive system. There are plenty of sites for sex ed. Don't just listen to your friends, they may know some things about it but they don't know all of the important stuff and don't be afraid to ask your parents questions. It is their responsibility to make sure you are educated correctly about this.
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They said they started at each other in front of me because they were panicing and sex was the first thing in there mind!
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well, they asked me if I wanted to join them, for the fist time, I said I'll think about it, what should I do, am I going to get pregnant if I do.
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They didn't handle that well.
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yea thats what I thought
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Should I do it, they said they wouldn't go hard core?
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lol girl, it sounds like you are going to have to try to learn about it on your own. Just don't do anything until you actually get facts about sex and what the dangers are and how to be safe.
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should i do it?
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NO! sorry to jump in here, but your parents inviting you to join is wrong on many levels!! very unhealthy and not good. dont do it!!!
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lol this has to be a joke.
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RedRose
i STRONGLY hope so
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I didn't read where you said they asked you to join... what the hell? what exactly happened. I'm not sure i can believe this one.
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I just reread this... Oh my god... Girl do not do it and i would seriously think about reporting this to the authorities. They are sick for even suggesting it.
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1. Avoid sodas, sugar, and fatty foods. Eat small, light meals.
2. Take medicine like Midol or aspirin.
3. Relax. Your stress and tension makes it worse.
4. Sleep it off.

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thanks, i really used your help and it worked :D!
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i would sleep off but sadly, i'm not allowed to...
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LOL. Good to hear. I hope you stay feeling better.
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try taking a hot bubble bath!

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ummm.... what about the blood?
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use a tampon. or take a hot shower :)
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tampons creep me out...
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whats that
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Take a pain-reliever.

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The best thing to do is to sleep that always helps then try to calm yourself down by not thinking about it. Get yourself activity. I know how it feels I just ended mine.

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i can't get my mind off of it and when it stops, it starts all over agian!!!!!!
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Take a pain-reliever, drink hot teas, bananas, heating pad, rest or exercise...

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I m not a girl, but I take pharmacy. To prevent it, dont eat too much candy or too much salt. Take vitamins and minerals. Dont take anything with cafeine, or alcohol, stay hydrated. To relieve the pain, try applying heat.. Try relaxing that area or try to expand it. Ik it sounds strange, but maybe it will work.

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Btw, those are home remedies. You could also take something for the pain.
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nice, but kinda strange hearing it from a man...
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i thought cold is better, no wonder i'm always in pain ><
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I find that elevating my feet does wonders for my cramps, it makes them bearable so I can sleep.

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Personally, I would check with my doctor, you seem to be in an unusual amount of pain, there may be an underlying cause.

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I have a male doctor, no way
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He is a doctor, he has seen it all, but if it will make you feel better, tell him the problem and ask him if he can recommend someone for you
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yea I guess
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but its going to be very unconffterable
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