1 year ago
Last edited at 10:46AM on 2/15/2013
For a second I thought you said HITTING your girlfriend, not hitting ON hah. I was gonna say "WHAT? You just stood by and did nothing?!" Lol. Don't be too clingy, you sound young and the relationship probably isn't serious (at least it really shouldn't be if you're still in high school!). When you're around that guy, leave! No one says you have to talk to him if he's going to be disrespectful. If she's dating you, that means you should trust her. You can't help it if other people are interested in someone you are dating.
Your girlfriend should be the one to put a stop to it, especially if you are right there. She should have stopped him and kissed you right in front of him... But if you want to refrain from hurting someone like him just remember she is your girlfriend for a reason and you trust her. Don't let jealousy make you lose her.
Growing up and being more mature and having confidence helps a lot. Let her handle it unless she comes to you for help because he's being creepy aggressive. Because if you guys are together, there's nothing to worry about. I guess you could also pee on her in front of him to mark your territory. I hear that works for animals.
1 year ago
Last edited at 11:15AM on 2/15/2013
Make no mistake .. THIS has nothing to do with his attraction to your girlfriend .. THIS is a power struggle. He is trying to show his dominance. It's the oldest trick in the book. Perhaps this works in the animal kingdom .. but it often has the opposite effect in the world of human relations.
He is disrespecting you .. he is disrespecting your girlfriend .. and he's not doing any favours for his own character. Walk away knowing he isn't worth getting excited about.
He can fluff up his feathers and dance around like an idiot in his mating ritual .. but in the end .. YOU get to go home with the girlfriend. He gets to look like an idiot.
Now having said that ..Perhaps it's time to have a serious talk with the girlfriend about appropriate behaviour when this kind of thing happens. For all I know, she may have encouraged his attention ... Had SHE shot him down right from the beginning .. He wouldn't have even taken it this far.
think about it this way...YOUR girl is so great that others want to date her, much better than dating someone that nobody else would want! - also she could have picked someone else, but she picked YOU. much better than her going out with you because she couldn't do any better. - look at how lucky you are. why be angry at someone who is so desperate that he has resorted to trying to impress someone else's girl? poor slob!
Please do note owner yourself to his level! If you do that he just proves that he CoNtRoLs YOU and that he is in charge! Please don't fall for this archaic mating ritual! It will only get you in trouble and he stands back and laughs at you! Is that what you want? Even if he doesn't win the girl, he still wins by controlling you! Think! Out smart the "smartalec"! Pull the "Rebel without a Cause" card and say, " Yeah, and she's cute, too! And she prefers gentlemen not brutes!"