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Phlorence_602

How do you help someone who doesn't wanna be helped?

In any situation at all

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I make you be helped bro.....because I'm THAT powerful.

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Phlorence_602
That made no sense
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Am I supposed to care? No? Good
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Phlorence_602
You are the annoyest thing ever
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That would actually be you.....I'm a distant second at best.
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*most annoying
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I don't want to come off as an a$$ but "annoyest" isn't a word or however you spelt it.
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English is her second language.
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Phlorence_602
And sunshine_girl already corrected me.
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Buttonz_again
Im boooooored
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Annoyest is now an official word.....I like how it sounds.
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Buttonz_again
My mom says that already
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Phlorence_602
Cool stories bros.
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No she doesn't
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Buttonz_again
Yeah she does.
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Actually,we pretty much corrected you at the same time. I will definitely sponsor that word though:).
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dillon, you lose by default :-)
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Well that escalated quickly
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Buttonz_again
Finally he loses!
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Story* Ok, now I'm being an a$$hole.
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Help them even more...because if they don't want your help..then they don't know what they are missing.

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"then they don't know what they are missing"????....like unwanted help?.....please!
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Just mind your own business. Ugh..they're making it more difficult.

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Depends on how urgent and radical your help is...

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It depends.. You could go behind their back and help somehow, or You don't. If they aren't willing to accept help, it's difficult to help.

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You can't....they have to want to be helped before anything you do will ever actually help!

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Oh crap I'm so sorry I didn't mean to do that!it was accidentally! Um so sorry!!!!!!
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You don't.

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It's hard to help someone, if they don't want to be helped. You just gotta let them do what they're doing, and let them know that you're there, for support.

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YES.....I wish I could give you 10 Helpful votes.
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Aw stop! lol
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Just let them be.

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You can't help anyone who doesn't want to be helped and you can't change anyone, they have to want these things.

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beautiful_flowers

Bug them until they agree... Or you could just help them even if they don't want you too...
Either one.. But I recommend--> YOU BUG THEM TO DEATH...

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"to death" think about that.
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beautiful_flowers
Be quiet..
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You said "Bug them until they agree".....with who?.....YOU? How can you know what is best for someone? .... Who knows what's best for you?
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beautiful_flowers
You're so confusing & very dumb.. Leave me alone..
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You don't want to be bugged? OK. Sorry.
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beautiful_flowers
Exactly I don't want you to bug me...
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It all depends what your trying to help them with. Sucide and thoughts of hurting themselves you diffently want to tell someone. Drugs or alchol its hard to help them when they don't want any help. Just be there for them. You do things that will make them mad they will resist what your doing. Good luck

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Being one of those people I guess whoever you're talking about would see help as a sign of weakness so all you can really do is let him or her know that he or she can always come to you if they need you.

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DolceMonserrat7

You just let them be..... Just be there to support them if they don't want to be helped .... I've been through this situation many times and you can't really do much if they are being like that....

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Buttonz_again

I just don't do it. I love helping people. I used to help my bro with stuff all the time and he hated it. I think it wad an ego thing. So I just stopped.

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it sounds pretty obvious...

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Phlorence_602
No it doesn't...elaborate
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he/she doesn't want any help :p
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how did you find that last answer you voted for me, on?! AWKWARD rofl
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Don't help

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I've been on both sides of the "situation" . Help only when your asked for help. Be a friend, not a judge.

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That was wise
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Being persistent and / or get to know more about that person. But something that always works for me is prayer. Trust Jesus. Gby.

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Depends on the situation. But no matter what, you can help them in small and less noticeable ways.

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generally you can't. there is an old saying :
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"you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink. "
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meaning: that you can help someone over, and over, teach them the tools and skills they need, but if they are unwilling to do it for themselves, they won't.

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iamrandom123

Most of the time you can't help someone that doesn't want the help.

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You don't do anything. That's the best way to help them.

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Pray for them, you are really helping them because you are putting it on Gods hands

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Hi there!! If they don't want your help and if they don't appreciate it, don't even bother. If they won't listen just walk away. Let them figure it out your own. I hope this helped
-Nikki

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